my husband use to wnt me all the time but lately he wont touch me barely kisseses me and doesnt say i love you that much i brought it up to him that i wanted him he just says he is tired or has things on his mind he sends me on errons then he leaves and is gone when i get home what can be going on
2007-06-03 18:53:15 · 21 answers · asked by renee b 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
my husband use to want to touch me all the time lately tho he doesnt touch me he barely kisses me hardly says i love you. i have told him i want him and i need to make love he says he just is to tired he sends me to town for things but when i get back he has been gone he says he is at grandparents or went to ask his mom something.its not like him not to touch me i grabbed his but one day in shower he pushed it away in bed i grab it he says he sleeping.it really hurts he doesent want me he has time for everything else including his mom but not me help what can i do talking doesnt change a thing
2007-06-03 19:14:21 · update #1
I don't know either one of you so this is just from what I read. He is leaving and not telling you where he is going and no longer shows affection to you, then I would question him on weither or not he is seeing someone else?
He is up to something, and it doesn't look all that good from what you say. What husband leaves and doens't tell his wife where he is going?
Question him, if he is cheating then ditch the dog, everyone deserves better then a cheating spouse!
Good luck and remember don't blame yourself if he is cheating. It isn't the othe persons fault no matter how much they try and blame the spouse.
2007-06-03 18:59:33 · answer #1 · answered by pinkribbons&walking4boobies 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Not to say that i have much experience in this matter as i've only been with my man for 2 years, but ask him. Try and talk it out. We always expect the worst when there's a rough patch. I did and it worked out that he was just really stressed and drained from work. I gave him some space and after a while he returned back to normal. If all is still boring in the bedroom introduce some sexy underwear and supprise him. He may not be cheating on you. He may just be getting a little bored. Spice it up!
2007-06-03 19:31:13 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's possible hes having an affair from what it sounds like. I would suggest possibly following him one time to see where he is actually going. Most of the time when a husband doesnt touch his wife, is because hes doing the touching somewhere else.
2007-06-03 18:59:38 · answer #3 · answered by qdark 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Something big is going on. If he won't talk to you, I think your marriage is in trouble. I'm sorry to say that, but this doesn't look good. If he's gone a lot, he may be cheating on you. I would pretend to leave but then follow him and see where he goes. Also, check his cell phone for numbers called, or to see if he is erasing all the phone calls he gets. Watch out!
2007-06-03 18:57:48 · answer #4 · answered by Katherine W 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There was a period when it was like that at my house just give him some space and maybe you can take the lead in the bedroom
and yes worst case scenario he is cheating but usually guy will try to hide and change in different ways good luck
2007-06-03 19:01:05 · answer #5 · answered by collectivetheresa 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
An affair perhaps? Sure, he may be mentally involved and if so, why is he not giving you the details of his concern?
Make "you" as the first concern for you. Get your finances in order and be prepared for the worst and if he is having an affair, then you can move on alone.
2007-06-03 20:37:30 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
He ain't touching you, but you can bet he's touching somebody of the female persuasion.
The next time he sends you on an "erron" (whatever THAT is), follow him when he leaves the house.
You'll find out just how "touchy/feely" he can be....
2007-06-03 19:00:21 · answer #7 · answered by miri-miri-off-the-wall 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm going through something similar but don't assume he's cheating. Talk to him maybe something is going on with him. Maybe he's stress over work or might be depress. You should talk to him and tell him how you feel and that thats why your his wife to be there fo him. Hopefully he'll want to talk because my husband doesn't. Good luck.
2007-06-03 19:02:25 · answer #8 · answered by Lily 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would really be wondering if he is having an affair that may be growing very serious. Pay attention to what he does, and next time he sends you out, trail him to see where he goes.
2007-06-03 19:21:40 · answer #9 · answered by treasuredwife69 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He has a hot young girl he's seeing. Next time he sends you on a errand just keep going.
2007-06-03 19:00:18 · answer #10 · answered by Mister Bald 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋