how can I really get to know how and or even who I am as aperson , I dont even know if I like myself !
2007-06-03 17:59:50 · 6 answers · asked by deeromper 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
every since I was 14 years old I was on drugs and I am 28 now ! It is all I have ever known
2007-06-03 18:06:04 · update #1
Boy, that sure is not enough information. What are you confused about changing?
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Sure you can change, and if you want to live, do it.
2007-06-03 18:03:42 · answer #1 · answered by treasuredwife69 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Every one stops at one time or another. It starts with saying I can't right now....Sometimes you have to get away from friends or family and move to another town where it isn't in your face all the time. Where there is a will there is a way.
You will need to develop some way of rewarding your self like a weekly swim or a trip to the mall etc. A slip up is just that and and shouldn't discourage you. There are several groups that can help you with support and encouragement.
2007-06-03 18:18:23 · answer #2 · answered by justpatagn 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You have to want to change. No one can get you clean but you. You have to want it so badly that you are willing to give up the only life you have ever known and go out and start a new one with new friends.
It will be a struggle but it will be worth it in the end. It doesn't matter if you like yourself now. Once you are clean you won't know that girl anymore anyway and you can start fresh.
Good luck
2007-06-03 18:24:07 · answer #3 · answered by hotelmajor 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you can ask this question, then your off to a good start. Everyone grows and changes as they move through life, some for the better - some for the worse. It's up to you to decide what you want.
Not sure? Talk to people you know and trust about it. Self reflect. Start a journal. Talk to a priest, pastor or rabbi. Take a look at what you hope for in life and begin to figure out what you need to do to get there.
Good Luck!
2007-06-03 18:05:46 · answer #4 · answered by bionicbookworm 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Okay Dee, you recognize you need some help. Get it. Look for groups that deal with your particular issues. There are plenty out there. Recognizing that you need help is the first step. It's worth the effort. Can you change? Of course. You know you can change. You Know others have changed. But it's hard. It may seem oeasy for others but harder for you. Keep trying. That's the best you can do...keep trying. So get some professional help. I support you in your efforts.
2007-06-03 19:11:15 · answer #5 · answered by judgebill 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Of course you have a reason. We are all here for a reason and should value the precious life that God has given us.
2007-06-03 18:22:26 · answer #6 · answered by mamabear 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋