Im a female, 16, and i tend to look at other girls and i think there hot. I also look at guys too and think there hot. I like this girl and i think she is sooo beautiful, and i want something to happen but shes straight, which really sucks. I told her today that i was bi and that i liked her and she said she only likes me as a friend and she dosnt even treat me differently....i also cant stop thinking about her.
please help me.
2007-06-03 17:12:46 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Society & Culture ➔ Cultures & Groups ➔ Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender
Some young girls are just curious and experimental. You will either grow out of it or stay "optional".
2007-06-03 17:20:00 · answer #1 · answered by ZICO 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I'm betting that you CAN stop thinking about her, but then you start thinking about her *again.* The only way to begin a cure is to increase the intervals between fits. Even at your age, there must be SOMEthing you're interested in besides sex-&-love. Whatever those things are, get involved with them as much as possible. Meanwhile, let your current friends know that your heart is broken and you're looking for someone new. The girl you've got the crush on should be particularly interested in finding you somebody.
At some point you'll notice somebody else to be interested in--very likely someone you meet through doing a something-else. The chances that their orientation connects with yours are about 90% for males and 10% for females, but don't let the odds completely control how you treat the possibilities. And anyway, gay guys and str8 girls can be non-sexual friends for a bi girl.
Keep looking and networking until you get somewhere. At that point, it will become infinitely easier to stop thinking about your current unrequited love.
2007-06-04 00:27:31 · answer #2 · answered by georgetslc 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If she does not want you there is nothing you can do and I'm sorry for your hardship. Like with anything else, just move on and you are bound to find someone even better.
2007-06-04 00:16:54 · answer #3 · answered by Friar33 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
there is no problem with the filling that you have for men or women but if you think that you are bi there will be some other girl out there for you Just keep full-filling your dreams
2007-06-04 00:18:01 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
IM me if u want.so ill try my best 2 help u
2007-06-04 00:16:59 · answer #5 · answered by skyrus 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well if she's not into girls youre just gonna have to move on...
ll let you go out on a date with me ;)
2007-06-04 00:17:09 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
sounds like that
2007-06-04 00:16:26 · answer #7 · answered by 1 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
she's straight. period. sorry --end of story.
2007-06-04 01:06:13 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋