what about as a girlfriend or boyfriend??? would it be difficult for you to accept them... would you even consider it... even if they had a good heart???
2007-06-03 16:31:36 · 31 answers · asked by Anonymous in Entertainment & Music ➔ Polls & Surveys
i am asking because i, myself am overweight... but like i do workout, eat right and take care of myself.
2007-06-03 16:40:43 · update #1
what does weight have to do with it? weight is like age...nothing but a number
2007-06-03 16:38:16 · answer #1 · answered by dƒ 5 · 3⤊ 2⤋
As a boyfriend, it would depend if they were so overweight that it restricted their mobility. I don't think I could deal with that. But a little extra don't bother me, nobody looks perfect, and even if they do, they won't forever anyway. In general, I have no problem with overweight people. I've been overweight myself and then lost the weight, so I know how hard it can be. When I got pregnant I gained a lot again, and now since I had my baby, I've lost 20 pounds, but I still have 25 pounds to go until I reach my pre-pregnancy weight and I wouldn't want someone to be disgusted with me on account of my son.
2007-06-03 23:37:51 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
I have plenty of overweight friends and family members, the only problems I have is when their weight has affected their health then it is time to really work on a different way of life.
I personally am not sexually attracted to obese men, but I'm also not attracted to really skinny men, I wouldn't call it shallow some people prefer chocolate while others vanilla, It just depends on the person,personality. I knew from the first moment I met my husband that I loved him his build his husky!!!
2007-06-04 00:00:48 · answer #3 · answered by LuvnLife 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I care about personality more then looks. Yeah looks count a little bit but personality is way more than looks. Some of the overweight people I know are the nicest people I have ever met.
2007-06-03 23:35:05 · answer #4 · answered by dani 2 · 3⤊ 0⤋
I could accept others but as far as dating someone who is overweight I don't think I could do that. I'm just not attracted to large men, if they have a bit of a belly or are a little overweight that wouldn't matter. But too large then No.
2007-06-03 23:42:10 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
Nothing difficult or easy,it all depends on the kind of person one is!
Looks may wither away but as a person what you are is for a lifetime and It would matter much more than body stats!
2007-06-03 23:53:38 · answer #6 · answered by rhea 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't have a difficult time accepting anyone, with the exception of those with cruel and unkind spirits. We all have our faults and flaws, and those are the things that make us who we are. No one has the right to pass judgment on others. I truly do appreciate folks for who they are and not what they look like! I hope you have a wonderful week! Annie
2007-06-03 23:39:29 · answer #7 · answered by Annie 6 · 3⤊ 0⤋
It depends on what their attitude is like. If they are not doing anything about their weight then i cant really do anything. I have a friend who is in Football and he is overweight. At least he balances it out with sports and not just lying around getting fatter. In a relationship i think it would b hard. Due to societies views today it is hard to have a good heart when it comes to appearances. I am sad to say such a thing but it is very true.
2007-06-03 23:36:13 · answer #8 · answered by jasx501 3 · 1⤊ 2⤋
As a boyfriend, I would take an overweight, balding sweet funny guy over a hot hunk who treated me like dirt any day of the week.
2007-06-03 23:39:49 · answer #9 · answered by b_friskey 6 · 3⤊ 0⤋
Weight has nothing to do with a person...Personally, I would not even acknowledge the fact a person I dated or befriended was overweight becaue that stuff does not faze me...it is all about the personality...
2007-06-05 16:43:26 · answer #10 · answered by Dianna 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's easy but I'm overweight so obviously I'm going to be accepting of people struggling with same problem as I am.
2007-06-05 13:19:59 · answer #11 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋