heres the thing my mother can dream when some one close to me or her is going to die ... and i can see some times things i cant explain. tell me is this a curse or a gift? am i a weirdo? im only 13 and i have been seeing things since i can remember ....... it realy freaks me out!!!!!! help!!!
i went to a funeral and i saw the corps breathe!!! i got freaked out!!
please? allso i talked to my mom and she told me that probably it runs in the family.....can anyone help?
2007-06-03 13:41:10 · 20 answers · asked by Valentine 2 in Society & Culture ➔ Mythology & Folklore
a few monts ago me and mom came home and i saw a woman with brown hair and a radiant glowing dress in our living room.( you can see the living room from the garage)with no face, the same night i saw in the courner of my eye part of the same dress, i could't sleep that night.
2007-06-04 05:27:38 · update #1
It is a gift. Don't be scared of it. Maybe one day it will help you be able to do something great for someone!
2007-06-03 13:44:00 · answer #1 · answered by tangerine 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Its a gift. I had it all my life & im an adult now. Talk to your mom. Ask her how to deal with this gift they the both of you have. How to use it. Anyone else in your family have this? If you dont know this woman in this dress. I would go to the public records in your courthouse and/or your library. Cant go telling people you see this ghost. Society still does not accept the whole paranormal thing. You might pull up a name. You will definately find how old this house is. Maybe she lived there before the house was built. I think this woman wants you to help her. There is a reason that she has no face. She wants to get your attention. Have your mom help. Dont be scared. Try to help her. Be happy its not like the @55$%# poltergeist i had to live with in my house. Trust me, its a gift. It does help people when you learn to use it. Im open to email if you or your mom want to ask more questions. As for the dead body breathing, that's your imagination. When we see someone, they are usually breathing so its automatic born act to see this.
2007-06-09 09:33:17 · answer #2 · answered by Onomatopoeia 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well....it is a curse only if you let it run you. I would recommend practicing meditation to get a better handling on the thing. You are not freak. I myself have had portents of the future, although they mostly partained to video games in the future.
Other ways that may help you get things better off is to practice some martial art like shaolin-do, or ki-aikido, or some yoga (or all 3).
I also have a friend who is a reiki practitioner. She tells me that she had a terrible time with some abilities similar to yours. However, once she became a reiki initiate, she found that it was less troublesome and actually became enjoyable.
It is only scary as long as you don't understand it. I hope you find peace with your gift. Many good spirits shall smile upon you.
Many blessings
2007-06-03 20:45:24 · answer #3 · answered by moon dragon 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
How many deaths did your mother dream about before they actually happened? And if they were of people who were already old or sick, I wouldn't think of that as a real premonition at all.
When my grandparents died (on separate occassions), I remember sitting next to their bodies and staring very hard at their chests because I could've sworn they were moving. But of course, they weren't.
It's neither a gift nor a curse, it's an overactive imagination. If it persists or worsens you should consult a psychiatrist.
The tendency to share similar psychiatric problems is heriditary to a large extent so naturally, things like this may run in the family..
2007-06-03 15:16:29 · answer #4 · answered by aken 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
For some, having a third eye is a curse. But for me, if I have the ability that you have, I would take it as a gift. Although it's scary to think you can see spirts or ghosts of dead people. If I had that gift, I'll use it for good intentions or purpose. Psychics, clairvoyants, mediums... they have all the powers that can help mankind find solutions to their problems. Since you are fortunate to have been given an extra sight, cultivate that talent and use it for good purpose. Do not abuse what you have, not for mercenary reasons. It's a God-given gift, use it to help those who are in need of guidance and enlightenment.
I encountered some problems in life that were too heavy for me to carry. I turned for help to a psychic but I was disappointed. She professed to be a real one, ready to assist and guide me towards finding my true self so I can understand everything that is happening to me and my life. She said I was wrapped in everything that is negative. She said she will help me overcome the negative influences in my life so I can start living the life I should have. I believed and trusted her. Later, I found out that before she can help me, I have to send her some money so she can start on some rituals or ceremony. I did not give in to her request. If anyone is willing to give their help, you don't expect to be paid. If not, before she has proven to you her worth. Right? Let the natural course of life, or God, repay you in some ways for your good deeds. I hope you'll remember this and be not like them.
2007-06-10 22:16:59 · answer #5 · answered by annabelle p 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It is both. It is a cursed gift. It can open you to things most could only imagine. It can also, as you've already experienced, scare the living hell out of you. In the long run you will get used to it, and start to control it a little. Take advantage of it and learn as much as can from what you see.
2007-06-07 13:07:40 · answer #6 · answered by shpadoinkall 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Gift, but at times I can assure you it will seem like a curse. You'll have to learn to live with it and that's complicated. But in time you'll see it as the gift it is. Don't give up hope, and if you can try and help the people you see bad things happening to. (Yes, I AM aware that it seems as though the next thing I'll type is "with great power comes great responsibility!" but I wasn't going to.)
2007-06-03 14:25:07 · answer #7 · answered by Akuma 6 · 2⤊ 0⤋
It's a Gift.
I have been able to do the same things you've described that both you and your Mother are capable of doing. For me, I always thought that everyone could do it and when I found out otherwise I felt truly blessed.
Have a lovely rest of the evening.
2007-06-03 13:48:30 · answer #8 · answered by Goblin g 6 · 2⤊ 0⤋
It is a gift if you learn to control it. And everyone sees the corpse breath, that is just when we have a hard time processing the death. The dreams are psychic.
2007-06-03 16:06:13 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
hey now it's my turn to answer your question...hehehe hey since you are happy that you are not alone, well one thing i realized after reading all those answers on my question.... i find it cute now, that i can see things....lil bro, it's not a curse, it's a gift....god not everyone can do all those things.... and your mother can use it as a warning.god if you are weirdo, then that makes me a weirdo too!!!!! so WE ARE NOT WEIRDOS, WE 'RE JUST UNIQUE! well i just hope i'll get rid of my incubus someday.... cos really, he's the most annoying one!
2007-06-05 02:13:51 · answer #10 · answered by anasheimeia 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋