ok...i've never dated before. let's just say that i am in between the ages of...17 and 19. i am honestly saying that i've never dated before. it's just because of my culture...we are very conservative, BUT dating is not forbidden. we just don't. well, i'm a little shy when i first meet ppl, but i warm up quickly. now, my question is, do you guys prefer girls that are loud and really flirtacious and do all that stuff? or do you prefer girls that are a little more on the quiet side (but not very quiet), are thinkers, love to have fun (but not by drinking and getting wasted)??
i'm asking cuz i'm curious and have never dated before. which type would you prefer??
2007-06-03 13:06:21 · 12 answers · asked by chishru 2 in Society & Culture ➔ Other - Society & Culture
dont try and be what "all guys want" just be you and find the guy that liks you. if you are shy, so what, youll find someone. Its really a girls overall personality that i like. if they are flirtatios, fine, but sometimes if they are quiet, even way shy, its fun to get them to open up and laugh. it depends on the person and the girl and both's personality.
2007-06-03 13:20:33 · answer #1 · answered by Maxifer 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It varies from person to person - I tend to prefer flirty girls, but be careful not to take it too far and seem slutty (you'll attract the wrong type of guy). Also, some men are attracted to quieter girls who know how to have fun - a good middle ground is important. Flirt, but don't lead everyone on. Having fun is always a good thing, and in the long run, an intelligent girl (as in a thinker) will be more likely to form a long-lasting relationship, if that's what you are interested in.
Good luck!
2007-06-03 13:12:41 · answer #2 · answered by Nick P 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I've always been attracted to shyer girls, and I ended up marrying one. Now that I think about it, I've never dated a "loud" girl and can only think of one that I ever had a crush on.
But of course some guys like moer extroverted women. LIke they say, there's someone for everyone. So don't worry about it, I get the feeling you're not going to have much trouble being noticed by guys.
2007-06-03 13:26:15 · answer #3 · answered by Rossonero NorCal SFECU 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If I was a guy I would prefer the quiet type. Loud people are annoying.
2007-06-03 13:10:41 · answer #4 · answered by Pinkie 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If I had to prefer a girl, she would have to be funny and outgoing, doesn't drink or smoke, sometimes shy becuase thats cute, and she would have to be smart are average not to dum. To tell the truth I really dont like girls that way because I am gay but I dont really like girls that care to much with their nails and hair and what they have to wear because I dont care for that. But those are my standards for women if I was straight. So If your this way I am proud of you. I am only 16 so you are 2 years older.
2007-06-03 13:16:56 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Most guys prefer cute ones
2007-06-03 13:10:02 · answer #6 · answered by teamjesus_ca 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I definitely prefer the latter type you described. The former is just annoying imo.
Cheerfulness and a genuine smile score points for me. :)
2007-06-03 13:11:38 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Quieter (but not too quiet) is preferred over loud...but that's just me.
2007-06-03 13:15:32 · answer #8 · answered by Mac 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you just have to find some one that likes you for you...and if they do they will approach you....and yes some guys like loud party girls and some like the opposite...
2007-06-03 13:12:41 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Be a lady at all times and respect yourself. Make sure your date respects you and your body.
2007-06-03 13:12:28 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋