Revenge is not the answer to anything. Think about this, You are going to do something to her and then she is just going to bring more pressure on you. You might think that you can get away with things but sooner or later she will find out and things will just get worse. Let her do whatever she wants and do not let her ruin your world. In the end it is your life and what you decide to with it is up to you. If you do something then what is going to stop you from doing other things to other people. Every one just needs to realize that even though things are bad it is only as bad as you want them to be.
2007-06-08 19:20:39
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answered by martin s 1
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First, I think people misunderstood your question, and thought you were talking about an exgirlfriend... I don't know why.. some of the women on here are a bit slow apparently... especially the one who called you names. (And before you feminists get all bent out of shape, read the comments for yourselves)
I'm curious how if she grounded you from your computer for 2 weeks today you managed to be on here asking this question.
Anyway, to get to your answer.
Having a step-parent can be difficult. I know, because I had one growing up myself... we never got along, and to this day, we still don't. There is a lot of resentment there. Your situation may be better or it may be worse, I can't tell from what you've said so far, however I do think she was being unreasonable with you.
I think you should talk to your father about it, though don't get your hopes up that he will do much to correct it.
In the meantime, I know she's not your real mom, and it bothers you that she tries to punish you as if she were, but you're probably going to have to try and get along with her as best you can, or else things will be even harder for you.
I'm really sorry you're going through that, and I know it's not easy. I don't think you should do anything to her that she's going to know for sure was you... if you really want to get even, then don't do something obvious like some of the things suggested here, and don't do anything dangerous. You'll feel guilty over it, anyway.
The best revenge you can get on her, is to show her that you're mature enough to not let her get to you.
Good luck, ok?
If she does anything abusive to you, tell a family member (on your mother's side if possible), or tell a teacher. I'm not saying she is or will, but if anything bad like that happens, you don't have to stay silent about it.
2007-06-11 03:53:43
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answered by Osiris Cross 2
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Forget about those silly ideas that the world is perfect and revenge is bad, blah, blah and more blah. Your step is a jack***. First, survive the punishment and act like nothing happened and pretend you go on with your life. Then buy some laxatives and mix it with something your step usually drinks (in secrecy obviously). You'll have a hell of a laugh. Other thing is the ant solution but in this case put it in the toilet paper. Or a combiation of both. Good luck and remember: May the force be with you.
2007-06-10 09:24:53
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answered by Luis Pachon 007 4
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The best revenge is to be good listen to what you are told, Tell her she is the best mom in the world,
If she is that jealous of you this will irritate the crap out of her.
especially do it in front of your dad. That away when she is complaining about you to him he will know that it is her problem and not yours.
If you break the rules or antagonize her, you will be stuck with her forever. If you allow her to show her true self. Your, dad is going to see what is up and she wont last long.
I know that you are angry, but every time you do something bad or speak out of anger you justify her behavior.
When she punishes you, just say yes mam and go to your room when your dad asks why you were punished all she can say is for sneezing.
How far do you think she will get with that?
2007-06-11 06:46:57
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answered by angie 4
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two words:
water Ballons
And then blame it on another, younger sibling or neighbor.
Thats always fun!!!
OR offer to make her breakfast and put some serius nastyness in side. Like the things you know she hates in her food. Just shove it in and mix it up so she can't see it.
Revenge is sweet.
And if she spits it out then say "I thought only kids could play with their food?"
Put on a really innocent face and pray that she dosen't ground you again. She may, but the look of revenge is always better than the punishment that follows.
2007-06-11 08:42:57
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answered by Anonymous
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Just sit at the table and blow boogers all over the place. That's what I would do. Hopefully one will land on her spoon just as she's ready to take a bite. Maybe you should talk to your father or your real mother about this situation. Step moms can be so rude some times.
2007-06-09 04:50:34
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answered by missnasa2001 4
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Revenge will only give you more trouble. Be so good and sweet. This upset a person that's in the wrong because there is nothing they can do to you. There is a old saying Honey gets all the revenge you want.
2007-06-11 08:49:30
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answered by LDJ 5
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ok, don't go there. revenge is not the answer, and in the end it will come back and bite you in the butt! so, forget it.
not living in your home, i have no idea what else is going on, hard to believe that if you are a great stepkid, that she would ground you for leaving the table for a kleenex. so........what else is going on?
this question, and her grounding you, leads me to believe you are a bit of a handful and have tried her patience perhaps once too often. i suspect that she has had enough of your antics and i think you need to grow up.
you need to re-examine how you treat her, how you behave, and if you really are the total innocent, you have to speak to her and your dad about the situation, calmly and without temper tantrums or threats or pouting.
good luck with it!
2007-06-11 08:04:43
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answered by the quiet one 3
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What if when she is cooking you raise an alarm automatically she will go to see what is happening then you go secretely to the kitchen add more salt to the food she is preparing then you snick outside and make sure nobody sees you at all then assume you've done nothing.So when you will be at the table she will be embarassed coz everybody will be complaining b'cos of the food and she will feel very bad.
2007-06-11 02:47:24
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answered by Kit,s 2
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Well if you take revenge and do something to her, don't you think she is going to do the same to you? I'm not saying you should take that from her, but see if you can come to some equal ground. Somehow I don't believe we are being told all of the information or the way things really are.
2007-06-07 18:32:20
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answered by Gipper 6
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