Have you been married and is it now better or worse.? did your parents divorce and how did it affect you? How has divorce affected your life?
2007-06-03 12:47:04 · 20 answers · asked by Anonymous in Entertainment & Music ➔ Polls & Surveys
My parents were married 37 years before my dad passed away in 1985. I married at 23 and within 2 years had been beaten down until I had no self-esteem. My ex seemed to think that a woman was good for staying home, cleaning, cooking etc. I was "fat", "ugly", "didn't do anything right" and most of the time "couldn't cook worth a sh*t". Physical abuse is terrible, but bruises go away. Mental abuse can be worse becaus"e memories don't go away as easily. Actually they can shape how you feel about yourself for the rest of your life.
2007-06-03 17:08:33 · answer #1 · answered by JustMe 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I have been married for 20 years in those years it got worse. Yes my parents are divorced....I thought it was the end of all ends. Now that I have been through it....... I have learned allot about my parents and myself that no matter what life continues to go on. I now have a great relationship with both of my parents which I am very grateful. My ex does not see the kids his choice, but they are thriving in an enviroment that is much better on all of us that remain in the Family Home!
2007-06-03 13:00:13 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I've never been married. My parents haven't divorced. And divorce has affected my life because a few months ago one of my friend's mom divorced her dad and she was so upset and cried for weeks.
2007-06-03 12:53:56 · answer #3 · answered by Megan C 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It isn't worse but it isn't better this time around.
My parents divorced( no my mother divorced my father) and I have had a hard time stomaching her ever since. Trust is a huge deal for me, I have maybe three people in my life that know enough not to want to know it all.
2007-06-03 17:49:29 · answer #4 · answered by ~4NOW~ 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes-together for 15 years, married for 10. Some ways better, some ways worse. Parents are still together.
Hard to trust again.
2007-06-03 12:52:51 · answer #5 · answered by ♥Ashley K. 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
My ex wouldn't even buy a gallon of milk for the kids- he's an ***. He just walked out one day. We never talk. I say "It's me" he hangs up. Been like that for 12 years. My parents divorced when I was 2 weeks old. Never knew Mom. I have abandonment issues.
2007-06-03 12:55:19 · answer #6 · answered by DeadHelen 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
my parents were divorce when i was bout 7.. but my mom raised me strong.. and all the advice i give to people who have problems because of their parents being divorced is "get over it" grow up and live your own life.
and I have never been married but I have been with a few married chicks.
2007-06-03 12:54:43 · answer #7 · answered by vern 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I come from a divorced parents and I did divorced my ex I happy with out him
2007-06-03 12:50:51 · answer #8 · answered by marsh 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
My parents got divorced when I was around 5. It had a huge negative impact on my life. I don't see my real dad as often as I would like. And I have a physically and emotionally abusive step dad.
2007-06-03 12:54:24 · answer #9 · answered by Stark 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Divorce is the best thing that ever happened to me. I am no longer a prisoner in a marriage where love doesn't live anymore..
2007-06-03 13:16:43 · answer #10 · answered by rosey 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋