that song him is from the 70s or early 80s it goes what she gonna do about him its him or its me?

Answer 1

Him
Rupert Holmes

Over by the window, there's a pack of cigarettes.
Not my brand you understand,
Sometimes the girl forgets
She forgets to hide them
I know who left those smokes behind
She'll say, oh, he's just a friend,
And I'll say, oh, I'm not blind
to..

(chorus)
Him him him, what's she gonna do about him?
She's gonna have to live without him,
It's him or it's me, me me,
No one gets to get it for free
It's me or it's him.

Don't know what he looks like,
Don't know who he is.
Don't know why she thought that I
would say what's mine is his.
I dont want to own her,
But I can't let her have it both ways.
Three is one too many of us,
She leaves with me or stays
with..

(chorus)

Him him him, what's she gonna do about Him?
She's gonna have to live without him,
It's him or it's me, me me,
No one gets to get it for free
It's me or it's him.

If she wants him she can have him,
Just exactly how we once were,
Its goodbye to he and I,
and back to me and her,
Without..

(chorus)
Him, him, him, what's she gonna do about him?
She's gonna have to live without him,
It's him or it's me, me, me,
No one gets to get it for free,
Time for me to make the girl see,
It's me or it's him.

(repeat chorus)

Answer 2

It's by Rupert Holmes. It's off the same album that has "Escape" on it, called Partners in Crime. Came out in 1979, I think it was. Lyrics follow:

Over by the window, there's a pack of cigarettes
Not my brand, you understand, sometimes the girl forgets
She forgets to hide them, I know who left those smokes behind
She'll say, OH he's just a friend
And I'll saw, OH i'm not blind to

Him, him, him
What's she gonna do about him
She's gonna have to do without him
Or do without
Me, me, me
No one gets to get it for free
It's me or it's him

Don't know what he looks like
Don't know who he is
Don't know why, she thought that I would say what's mine is his
I don't want to own her
But I can't let her have it both ways
Three is one to many of us
She leaves with me, or says with

Him, him, him
What's she gonna do about him
She's gonna have to do without him
Or do without
Me, me, me
No one gets to get it for free
It's me or it's him

OOHHHHH OHHHHH OHHHHH

If she wants to, she can have him
Just exactly how we once were
It's goodbye to you and I
Back to her and I without

Him, him, him
What's she gonna do about him
She's gonna have to do without him
Or do without
Me, me, me
Not one gets to get it for free
Time for me to make the girl see
It's me or it's
Him, him, him
What's she gonna do about him
She's gonna have to do without him
Or do without
Me, me, me

I loved this guy as a kid, sang both this one and Escape all the time, two of my faves :)

Answer 3

I believe the song you're looking for is "Him" by Rupert Holmes, and it came out in the 70's. The lyrics are:

Over by the window, there's a pack of cigarettes
Not my brand, you understand, sometimes the girl forgets
She forgets to hide them, I know who left those smokes behind
She'll say, OH he's just a friend
And I'll saw, OH i'm not blind to

Him, him, him
What's she gonna do about him
She's gonna have to do without him
Or do without
Me, me, me
No one gets to get it for free
It's me or it's him

Don't know what he looks like
Don't know who he is
Don't know why, she thought that I would say what's mine is his
I don't want to own her
But I can't let her have it both ways
Three is one to many of us
She leaves with me, or says with

Him, him, him
What's she gonna do about him
She's gonna have to do without him
Or do without
Me, me, me
No one gets to get it for free
It's me or it's him

OOHHHHH OHHHHH OHHHHH

If she wants to, she can have him
Just exactly how we once were
It's goodbye to you and I
Back to her and I without

Him, him, him
What's she gonna do about him
She's gonna have to do without him
Or do without
Me, me, me
Not one gets to get it for free
Time for me to make the girl see
It's me or it's
Him, him, him
What's she gonna do about him
She's gonna have to do without him
Or do without
Me, me, me

Answer 4

Him Or Me..by paul Revere & The Raiders? Hope it helps.