Do you think bigger girls who exude confidence can be sexy, despite their size?

Question

Would you find yourself attracted to a big girl who was extremely confident, or would that not matter because of her size? And more importantly, for any other big girls out there, how do you find that confidence in the first place?

OKAY- I DIDN'T SAY ANYTHING ABOUT BEING LOUD TO MAKE UP FOR IT. Read my question, not the answers that pig-headed biost people leave. Can big girls be sexy? Making up for it through obnoxious activities was never part of the question. Thnx

Answer 1

No. I hate bloated, flubbery bodies. But it isnt just that which puts me off. Its also the rampant food stuffing greedy pig element, too.

Answer 2

i find it hard being overweight especially being in high school but i find my confidence when im with my friends. ppl do tell me that im beautiful even if i cant see it myself. i think having the confidence has a lot to do with ur attitude about life and ur personality.just remember that if the guy has a problem with ur weight then he isnt worth ur time anyways...the guy that doesnt care about how much u weigh and only cares about the person u r inside will be the guy who will love u for u and will be that special guy...unfortunately he may be hard to find...kids can be cruel tho but if u dont care what ppl think and u just look to have a good time then confidence should nvr be a problem...i just wish that i could follow my own advice.




i also agree with prettychicken...but i have a question: wouldnt it be easier for the guy to go up and talk to the quiet girl? if he tried to talk to the confident girl he might get intimidated by all of the people she was talking to and all of the attention she was attracting and not even walk up at all.

Answer 3

Confidence plays a strong role regardless of how an individual may look. Confidence is something that silently states: "I know who I am, I know what I want, I know someone loves women like me"

Not all women who are big, are big because they are over- eaters. Some may have hormonal, thyroidal, and other medical problems. Nonetheless, regardless of the reason why a woman may be big, she can obtain confidence by keeping up her appearance (all women look crappy if they don't keep up their looks), and accepting who she is knowing that there are men and women who love big women ONLY.

Keep in mind, too, there are many skinny women who lack confidence.

By the way, increasing one's education can dramatically increase the confidence level.

Answer 4

absolutely do people love confident girls more!(regardless of size!) if there is a girl in the corner who does,t really say much, then a guy is going to find it harder to pluck up the courage to go over and say hello, because ther is more pressure on him to say the right thing and to make the right impression. whereas, if there is a girl in the thick of things who is alreadyy in conversation with several other people then it is easier to jump in a conversation and therefor that takes the pressure away from him. beware though, there is a huge difference between confident and gobby!

Answer 5

There are men out there for girls like that, but I'm not one of them. Although they can have confidence and have beautiful faces I am not attracted to the extra baggage.

So I guess in my case it does not matter because I could never get past the size. She would have to drop the extra pounds for me to find her attractive.

I simply answered the question. Some may not like my answer and that's fine. People who say it's on the inside that matters is full of shyt. It has a part to play but you also have to be attracted to the person or else you are just friends at that point. I don't date big chicks and that's that. Like I said some guys like it and God made them just for you.

Answer 6

well i think some big girls dress like they are skinny with clothes that don't fit properly. You have to be happy with yourself and dont worry about what other people say you just have to go out and say this is me if you like me fine if not oh well men like big women. It seems like you may need a confidence class.

Answer 7

a big girl being loud isnt showing confidenc thats just trying to say hey look at me im telling jokes or doing whatever to take the attentions off of my size but i know plenty of big girls that are very pretty it all depends on how you carry yourself

Answer 8

i agree (with sonfai81) - i believe a good amount of confidence is key - being loud and overbearing isn't going to work for anyone. i know it sounds cliche, but you're really better off just being yourself. if you constantly put on a front, you'll end up having to act your way through any relationship you get into. if someone is going to find you attractive, they're going to regardless. you shouldn't have to act a certain way.

Answer 9

I'm not big, but I am glad you didn't use that 'f' word--f (at).

If I ever get big--if somebody calls me that word--there is no telling what I would do.

NOW--the answer---(mine)---is -that I have SEVERAL friends who are bigger. I don't even LOOK at their size.

Confidence comes from knowing that God loves you and everything is allright with the world.
It comes from your heart.--Confidence does.
Stand TALL--no matter your size.

Answer 10

i think that any girl who is confident in themselves ......no matter what size they are are sexy....if they learn to care themsleves with grace and poise and confidence it takes courage...no matter what size you are....and it is sexy.....


its very hard for girl to find confident in this world today...no matter what their size is cause of the media......luckly i learned it at a young age from 14 years of ballet.....

Answer 11

Anyone can be sexy, no matter their size. It should matter more about the person they are inside than their appearance.