Indian men?

Question

I'm no racist in fact im mixed raced myself but i have a slight problem with indian men.
I find them quite purvey. Whenever i wear a low cut top they stare at my chest. Even when i don't wear one they do! Me and my friends were sat on the bench in town and some asked "how much" They seem to be so horny. I've heard many women say they are purvey to. I don't dress or act like a tart either

yes i find it's mostly the immigrants. The indians who were born here seem cool

Answer 1

totally with you on this. They do stare and its really unnerving. Every female i know has commented on it.

Answer 2

I too agree totally with 'Gudiya' in that in India suficiently covering the female breast and keeping it under a bra which does not accentuate the shape is the norm. So if you dress provocatively or worse still do not wear bra or anything underneath.......well men can be more than attracted....especially Indians who have come from conservative backgrounds. But they will get over it after some time in Western countries. You are again correct in that those who have been born and brought up in Western culture ignore such 'attractions'.
It is still taboo in India to kiss openly in the public. Eating too is not too open. though in the North of India it is more open but not that much in the South.

Answer 3

men purve at women everywhere in the world,it is not a very nice thing but it is in the genetic make up of men.furthermore there are some countries where women dress very conservatively and as such men from these countries tend to stare at women when in western nations,because of the kind of clothing worn by women here.frankly it has nothing to do with indian men,but men in general.singling out people for things like this is,well i won't say rascist,but certainly childish and stupid,grow up and have a mature outlook on people and life.

Answer 4

Are you being a wee bit too sensitive? If a woman wears a low cut dress and looks even half-decent, any man will give them a glance, it's in our biology to find a good mother for his children. Do you dress to be ignored (I don't think so ;~)

Having said that; irrespective of how you choose to dress, being approached and offered money is an offense and should be swiftly dealt with by a call to a police station or any convenient passing police - just be sure not to go to these parts of town again.

Just a hot-blooded male's opinion

Answer 5

In my opinion pervs are universal, not just solely related to one ethnicity. You shouldn't let the experiences you have allow you to categorize and entire ethnicity. Who knows, you might me some indian guys later on down the line who are very charming and respectful. Personality has a lot more to do with the person than the race.

Answer 6

you sure they are Indians? did you look at their I.Ds and you say they were horny,and you heard many women say they are purvey,so are you surveying on Indian men only,you must have nothing better to do.

Answer 7

If there ever was one thing that united all men of all races, colours and creeds it is their penchant for looking at womens breasts.

I wouldn't say Indian men would leer more than others - only that you notice it especially when the leerer is an Indian man.

Answer 8

You probably dress scantily. Sorry, but it is true. In reference to your problem being specifically with Indian men: it may be because you are more suspicious of immigrants, because they, as immigrants, lack the smooth mannerisms of indiginous men, or something similar. I don't get what your question is anyway. Did you just post this to tell everyone your story?

Answer 9

Most Indian men are brought up to believe that ...Oh hell, I am staying out of this. I am originally Indian...lol

Answer 10

i totally agree...

we dont have girls wearing these kinda clothes rather it does not suit them at times so its definitely a turn on and embarassing situation for both the sides...
we are just not open to all this stuff...

even when indian girls go to the village the boys keep staring to the indian girls...

please forgive all of them...they are just silly purvey as.ses

Answer 11

Blackpool in particular seems to have a problem with Asians. In the nightclubs they target white blonde women and are a pest. Women are told not to leave their drinks unattended.