I am about to break?

Question

I am 12 years old and I am tired of being bullied about my boobs. I am am a size 34C and everytime I am in the hallway guys try to bump into me, and then they tell their friends about it. They are always like I just touched Rianna boob. I can't tell my dad because he wouldn't understand and I don't want to talk to him about this. My best friends are there for me but they tell me that I am lucky to have big boobs. When I go to the doctors they always tell me I am not full grown yet. I ask them before how large they think my breast will get and they told me to a size 34D or maybe larger. I hate have big breast I can't wear tight cloths, or cloths that don't fit properly because boys always try to peek. What can I do to look like I have smaller brest, what can I do about the boys at school? How can I try to tell my dad since my mom died a few days after I was born? I want a mom to talk to but since I don't have one I come to answers and I hope you can help. So please answer.

Answer 1

the boys at school are sexually harassing you and you should report them to the principal or to a teacher you trust. As for your dad, it may be hard but you may just have to tell him, it will be uncomfortable, but hopefully he will try and make it a little easier. Do you have an aunts you could use to help you with your dad?

I understand the whole big breast issue, 34 DD here, i am seriously contemplating a reduction, but I am 29.

Answer 2

Don't wear revealing clothing. Try to wear tops that have a high neck, or ballet neck. These won't let anything peek out, therefore not attracting attention from the boys. Also get bras which have good support, with wires. You can't help the size of your boobs, but you don't have to cry about it either. If you are overweight though, losing weight will definitely make them smaller. Try talking to your dad. Even though hes not a girl, he can still help you with the problems at school.

Answer 3

I agree you are totally being harassed by the boys in your school and you should tell someone that you trust. Do you have a teacher or counselor you can talk to? I had the same problem growing up. I wore baggy sweaters to try and hide mine. But as you get older so will the boys and they'll stop teasing you and playing games...they'll actually get shy. Instead of cursing your breasts try and embrace them. And make sure you get a good supporting bra cuz after time you will have back problems. There are bra's out there that can be minimizing. Next time you go out shopping try and get someones help. Or go into a department store even if you don't plan on buying a bra there ask the ladies what they suggest.

Answer 4

I know exactly what you are going through. I had C cup breasts when I was 12 yrs old. You should tell a teacher about these boys because what they are doing is sexually harassing you. Then you may want to find a full coverage bra that will help make the breasts look smaller. There are also tons of fashions out there that can make your chest look smaller. You should just search it online. Hope this helps.

Answer 5

Yes, you are being sexually harassed and it's up to the school to put a stop to it They can't stop it if they don't know and it's hard to see what happens in the halls. Guys that age are dumb, but they won't get smarter for a long time unless the school or your dad smacks (Not literally) them around a bit.

Your dad needs to know because you are the victim of a crime here.

Chances are that someone in your family has big breasts and developed early, too. Because this runs in families, he ought to know some women in his family or your mom's who can talk to you. He knows that a girl needs a woman sometimes and has been worried about this day for years. (Trust me, my husband died when my boys were young so I know about those worries.)

If he can't think of any family member, then you two should hunt for big-busted women (but not fat unless you are also, because I didn't get big breasts until I gained weight.). In the lingerie department would be a good place to look.

When you find one that seems nice, ask her if you can talk with her about a personal problem that you think she might be able to help you with. (I know this seems hard, but it's easier than having strange guys peek and grab.) If she says, "Yes," glance at her chest and say, "We seem to have the same shape." Chances are she can direct the rest of the conversation directly to your problem.

Answer 6

oh the memories. I suffered through the same torment when i was your age. You can tell teachers, their still going to accidently bump you. You can wear baggy clothes, they will still try to look down your shirt. Sweetie the only thing you can do is turn it around. After they accidently bump you have your gf's point and laugh at them. If they ask why are you laughing say you know. it will drive them crazy and they will get the hint to stop. good luck.



* side note* if someone suggest taping your breasts down ( my friend saw this in a movie) DONT DO IT, IT HURTS LIKE HELL and i dont know what effects it had on me. all i know is my boobs were not perky ( like most girls) when i was in high school.

Answer 7

The exact definition varies from trainer to trainer. Some people consider a horse green broke when it has taken a saddle and rider on its back a handful of times. In my opinion it is green broke when it knows all the basics but is still a little rusty and may still have "awkward" gaits that arent very smooth yet. To me broke is after at least a year of being ridden regularly, and it knows all its commands firmly, and has smooth well organized gaits. The horses has very little to know issues as far as rearing, bucking, or just not listening goes. I would say dead broke comes along after at LEAST 5 years of being ridden regularly, and it knows all its commands in its sleep. The gaits are very well organized, the horse can have anyone ride it, experienced riders or first-timers. The horse can be ridden with just a halter and lead while bareback. It takes a lot for this horse to spook or become unsettled. A rider will be able to yell and shout and swing things around and jump up and down (basically be a crazy looney) and the horse wont bat an eye. The key definition of "bombproof" the main differences I guess are just that green broke horses are just started under saddle, broke horses are well trained and ridden extensively, and dead broke horses dont even think about their training anymore and have been ridden for a LONG time. For riders I would say beginners know just the basics of riding, caring, and knowledge of horses. Intermediates know quite a lot about riding, caring and knowledge of horses, but still need lots of asistance on things and need more learning. Experienced people are very advanced in riding, know a ton about caring and knowledge of horses. But keep in mind you are NEVER done learning, no matter how advanced you are.

Answer 8

wow, thats a rough situation. I am so sorry you have to go through that. No girl should ever be harrased like that for her body.

Boys will be boys. They will try to touch and peek and its completely wrong. You can talk to a school counsler or an adult you feel comfortable with. Maybe an aunt, or a cousin.

Dont ever think your body is something to be ashamed of. I bet you are beautiful and no one should ever make you feel otherwise. I know it easier said than done, but be strong and just remember that you are beautiful.

Answer 9

You really need to tell a teacher about this, one you trust. This is sexual harassment and you do not have to put up with it.

One way to make your boobs appear smaller is to wear a special kind of bra called a minimizer bra. You can get them in most stores. Go with someone you feel comfortable with, a friend, friend's parent, aunt, grandma, etc.

Good luck.

Answer 10

Slap the **** out of the next guy that does that to you.
I'm only half kidding.
I'm sure your dad would understand if you went and talked to him about it. If you still feel uncomfortable, talk to the school counselor or one of your friend's moms. I'm sure they'll be able to help you.
Trust me, guys won't mature and get out of that stage until they're like 30...so trying to wade it out and say "oh it'll all stop next year" isn't gonna work.