Do some people have personalities that are not amenable to marriage? Should these people just stay single?
2007-06-03 06:39:50 · 16 answers · asked by sokrates 4 in Arts & Humanities ➔ Philosophy
Yes, I believe In am one. If you can't stay faithful to one person, get tired of people easily, prefer being alone most of the time, or you like to keep your possesions, money, etc. private, you shouldn't get married.
2007-06-03 07:44:04 · answer #1 · answered by Sunrayye 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes. I think that some people shouldn't be married to each other. I think that they could be married, but to other people. Also I think that some people get married for stupid reasons. Marriage is supposed to be a scared thing. How can society take it seriously when people are geting married 5, 6, or 7 times, and if they decided to get a divorce/anulment after 55 hours!!
2007-06-03 16:16:56 · answer #2 · answered by fuzzybear 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm finding out after 20+ years of marriage that I may have made a serious, tactical error in judgement. That's what happens, though, when you think with the wrong head, if you get my drift. I love her endlessly, and I love my sons the same, but I probably should have had someone slap the crap out of me before I said "I do". I knew BEFORE I said yes that I was a solitary type personality who lives much more peaceably alone than with another. She was pregnant with our first child, and there was no way I was going to walk away from her and my son. I just couldn't do it. I didn't want to. I'm not cut out that way to abandon someone like that. But, maybe now that my sons are grown it's time for me to move on. I think my wife and me both realize now that we came together for all the wrong reasons, and we've both gotten older and are just growing apart. It's sad in a way, but I don't know how else to make it real for us, for each other.
2007-06-03 14:20:29 · answer #3 · answered by RIFF 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
probably, although most will get married at least once in their lives. So even if their personality is not amenable to marriage, they still engage in a marriage.
Of course then their are those who religiously decide not to marry, (monks/nuns) but I dont know if this is so much a personality thing as it is a devotion to their own religion.
2007-06-03 14:16:35 · answer #4 · answered by Mo 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, there are many couples who date and have kids and all that, but never get married. I think this is because these people value their freedom from their soul mate more than others. So yes, some people just aren't made for marriage.
2007-06-03 13:50:26 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think members of the hollywood crowd should not get married, they are only making a mockery of the marriage vows,their marriage rarely lasts more than five years
2007-06-03 13:50:33 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes, some people should not get married they are not only gonna make their lives miserable but create an atmosphere in their homes which is similar to a cemetery, therefor, everyone living with them will suffer with their negative energy.
Its true one person can make a difference lol
2007-06-03 14:06:40 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
MOST people obviously should not be married according to the divorce rate. Its a fad that will hopefully die out. Only likemindedness and supporting each others' passion in life is a good enough reason.
2007-06-03 19:22:32 · answer #8 · answered by MysticMaze 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Yes. Some people are incapable of the cooperation and fidelity required of a marriage.
2007-06-03 13:46:35 · answer #9 · answered by Sophist 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Marriage is an antiquated system stemming from possession and the passing of wealth.
It is archaic.
2007-06-03 15:57:04 · answer #10 · answered by guru 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋