I went out with this guy and he ended up not knowing at all how to date so I dumped him. Now he's going out with my best friend and trashes me. He also got his parents and all his family friends to hate me and tells them lies all the time. I broke up with him nicely, I really did care about it. The worst part is, now that he's going out with my best friend, he suddenly knows how to make out and whatever. He brought her roses, and he was a really crappy boyfriend to me. Why didn't he treat me like that? And how do I deal with him being in ALL aspects of my life, I can't get away from him!
2007-06-03 06:20:29 · 13 answers · asked by Meredith 3 in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Adolescent
My main question- How do I deal with all his friends and all these adults and people who absolutely dispise me for no reason?
2007-06-03 06:21:11 · update #1
Well maybe u did somethin to make him think u weren't willing to make out or somethin. Maybe u did it without knowin it. Or maybe he got a mixed signal so didn't try anything with u.
But even so, he shouldn't be bad mouthin u like that and tellin crap to get people to hate u. That's a bad sign for him. But if he's like that u are best off without him anyhow.
So the way u deal with all those people hatin u is to totally ignore em and get with some REAL people. And soon u will also find a new REAL boyfriend too.
Honestly those people (and maybe even your best friend too) are not true friends and u don't need em.
Shake loose of all of em and find new and better people to hang with...u will be much happier and this old crap will die out quick when u have new friends.
2007-06-03 06:42:31 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
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2016-05-05 15:24:12 · answer #2 · answered by Roland 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Let your friend know what was going on and why you broke up with. Tell her that when you went out with him, you broke up with him and many of the people knew dispised you. Tell her that he is the kind of boyfriend that you must date forever or you will be dispised by many people. Then tell her that the sooner she breaks up with him the easier it will be for all of you.
2007-06-03 07:02:15 · answer #3 · answered by ☺Lisa☺ 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
It is good you are rid of him.....Your best friend was obviously not a best friend at all. I am sure after some time things will cool down and you have to ignore what is being said so that you look like the adult in this situation!!! Good Luck!!!
2007-06-03 06:42:15 · answer #4 · answered by spunkygirl77 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
tell then you certainly do no longer delight of their infantile hatred in direction of you. you ought to stand up for your self and not enable your self exchange into helpless. i'd additionally recommend possibly getting out of city for a month or 2 till issues cool off. bypass stay with a relative or a chum. It somethimes facilitates through fact it gets our minds off of the placement and makes the human beings who're including gasoline to the fireplace to relax down too. attempt stepping into different interests alongside with golfing or horse lower back driving horses that can help while you're hurting emotionaly.(they have a tendency to be theraputic.) you additionally can desire to attempt going out with different handsome effective adult adult males. that has a tendency to assist too. And in some ingredient in time if no person ever apologizes merely tell all of us you firgive them and which will make you experience extra proper and pass on. good luck!!
2016-11-03 12:59:04 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
ok, don't take this the wrong way now, but maybe it was YOU. maybe you didn't act like you deserved his respect. maybe you were clingy and annoying.
the adults, you can deal with by talking to them. more chance of a normal conversation where you can tell them your side of the story and what he's been telling THEM.
your mates and peers... well, just tell THEM that he's being so mean coz you wouldn't either
A. go all the way or
B. laughed at him when he got his dick out.
2007-06-03 08:56:49 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you rise above all the adlosent stuff and just say nothing then it will quickly suck the fun out of picking on you just be cooler than that hope I could help
2007-06-03 06:40:12 · answer #7 · answered by stacie_collins2001 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Dont worry about what others' may think-you yourself know the truth when it comes to you. As for why he treats her better---who knoes-maybe she speaks up if/when he acts like a fool and will not tolerate being treated poorly.
2007-06-03 08:25:10 · answer #8 · answered by nickle 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
she's obviously not you best friend, but you just need to move on, the more you obsess over it the more it will bug you. Get a hobby and get over it.
2007-06-03 06:39:05 · answer #9 · answered by parental unit 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
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2015-09-28 03:41:18 · answer #10 · answered by Luis 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋