I'd say "Take a break babes"
2007-06-11 04:40:17
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answered by silkensilhouette 4
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ooH..I had one of those..lol.....My son was a perfectionist I finally discovered. That is where the frustration comes in. He would get mad at himself if he couldn't do something right. Like riding a bike for the first time. If he even hit a ditch and it wasn't his fault he would get so frustrated, but, at himself, not the ditch or the bike.......Best thing to do if this is the case is to reassure him/her that it is not their fault. That some things happen for other reasons. Not because they didn't try their best. In other words, if it was the bike incident I just described, I would show him the ditch and how the wheel could not have made it through it. "that is why you fell"..."there is nothing you could have done about it.".......etc...I'm sure you know what I'm saying...Good luck...That's so hard to deal with. My son is now 12 and I couldn't be happier that he is now out of that stage.
Dahrma
2007-06-11 11:21:04
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answered by dahrma 3
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Tell them that some things simply take a bit longer to get down just right and not to give up. Point out something that they succeeded in doing in the past that took them a little longer and how good they are at it now.
2007-06-03 13:19:01
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answered by Anonymous
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They need support and encouragement. Always stay positive, but try to express that you understand their frustration. Say "I know this is really hard, but do your best. Sometimes it takes a lot of practice."
You can share your own similar experience, too.
2007-06-03 13:17:22
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answered by Karla 4
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Hi baby how it going sweetheart da diva here a good perfect thing to say to a child that is between the ages 5-7 when they are frustrated and trying to accomplish something new is ''Don't worry baby mommy's here don't give up keep trying , if you keep trying and don't give up I will give you a lollipop or a cookie it's your choice, and plus that it's good to practice honey because practice makes perfect''. got to go baby love ya smootches da diva.*
2007-06-11 10:48:05
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answered by shame on them 4
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Just tell them to keep trying and they will get it. Not everyone accomplishes things when they first try, but dont ever give up
2007-06-03 13:19:32
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answered by xxfun2lovexx 7
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Practice makes perfect! Take your time, keep trying, and don't give up!! If at first you don't succeed, try, try again!
It used to annoy me when my mother used all of those quotes on me, and I absolutely find myself using those with my kids!
2007-06-03 13:17:52
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answered by Country Girl 2
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" You sure are doing better than I did,,,,,,,,,let's see ya try to beat me " allow time and positive encouragement to do the rest . Let the child experience being challenged . Make sure to do it in a nice way .
2007-06-11 11:49:13
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answered by iambettyboop 7
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It's okay to be flustered, let's try again.
everyone has to practice.
even mommy/daddy need to practice.
let's work on it together.
you're getting the hang of this, keep doing that or try this.
wanna have a snack/drink and try again in a minute?
want me to help you?
good job, let's try that one more time
**Continue to hug, high five, encourage**
2007-06-09 15:39:30
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answered by wwhrd 7
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They need to know that it's alright when they don't get right the first few times. Encourage them, and then keep on encouraging all the way up to their college years.
2007-06-10 21:48:10
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answered by Anonymous
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i would say that something worth having, will sometimes take a while so not to ever,ever give and i'll squeeze in that i am proud of them and that i love them very much
2007-06-11 12:27:26
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answered by jules 3
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