would you obey your parents??

Question

if your parents said not to go to you're friend's house(who is a boy) b/c ppl might think something is happening, would you obey them. this boy, joey, i like is known by everybody. and if i were to do anything with him, his dad would probably kill us both. we're still in middle school, and we used to go out and now we're only friends. he's still a virgin so he doesn't even understand what my parents are talking about. what i want to know is why can't i go to his house now, when i was allowed to when we were going out?? it doesn't make since. so plz i need answers, and think about this from my point of view, not my parents

Answer 1

Maybe you can try compromising with your parents by asking them if you can have him over to your house with supervision.

Your parents are only trying to protect you.

Answer 2

The other answerer is correct. You don't need to know why
they oppose you on this, since they are your parents' and you
must respect their wishes. Apparently you didn't go to his
house when you were dating? I as a parent, wouldn't allow
my daughter to be alone in any boys house, without the par-
ents supervision. Parents of daughters especially are usually
tense about a situation like that. They don't want their daughters to be taken advantage of for one thing. And
another, they know that the hormone levels of both sexes are
on the rise during the teenaged years, since they were in
them once themselves. It's a never ending situation for all
parents and their children. With sexual morales loser in
todays' society, parents are still aware of how 'things look'
to others in the neighborhood, as you would be if you looked
at things from their side.
I remember when I was in first and second grade, I had
a little 'in like' situation with a boy a block away. And my
mother would let me go with him to watch his father and
his model train set. But when his parents weren't at home,
and he had to let himself in after school I was not allowed
to go over there and be alone with him. Because even at
that very young age, it didn't look right if people were to
see us. We eventually stopped walking home together from
school but I still clearly remember the day we walked to his
house together and he found his parents weren't at home,
so only he could enter his house and not me. So i walked
home. As he had put it, it wouldn't be any fun for me to come
in and just look at his things. He knew I was more interested
in his dads train setup with the little houses and other
buildings. How I wished I could have had such a neat thing. LOL Anyway, I'm glad to hear your parents are only thinking
of you and your welfare. When you are older you may have
more of an idea of why they are more concerned, for it does
seem strange if they didn't object earlier.

Answer 3

ok well mabe there is some concern and why did n't you say you're a virign??? r u if not do your parents kno that and maybe thats why they feel the way they do and how aobut joey come to your house for a while so they know to ...um trust him..im guessing agin since you did go out. and yeah just try to do a sneek with them knowing like....Im going to a friends house..and leave before they ask which friend it is.

Answer 4

I would obey my parents even though you 2 are just friends, but disobeying them could get you into alot of trouble...but if you want to you can...it might not make sense but wen ur old enough to have ur own house...it doesn't matter...just know that you parents are protecting you...and when they're not around anymore...you should protect yourself like they protected you.

Answer 5

It doesn't have to make sense. They are your parents and you must obey them. When you are 18, financially independent and living in your own house, then you get to make the rules.

Answer 6

lets put it this way,if you were living at my house,you would HAVE to obey my father,he rules the household with an iron fist! you step out of line you are in deep s**t ! my mother on the other hand is calmer but beware of my dad.

Answer 7

As long as you live under their roof, you have to live by their rules. Sorry to say hun but its supposed to be a universal law thing (meaning it should be followed by all people in the world regarding their race or the region they live in)

Answer 8

Your parents are looking out for you. It's their job to take care of you and make sure you don't get into trouble. Listen to them!

Answer 9

Is there anything you can think of that damaged their trust in you? Did you try to ask them directly? Because it is difficult to understand their 180. I am sure they have your best interest in mind though.

Answer 10

The above-mentioned are correct.Obey your parents!