I'm going out with my guy for 3 years and we love each other and now their is a gal who want to go out with my guy although she already knows that we are together.She says to me that she will do everything to seperate us and that she always gets whatever she needs and lot of absurdity like that.She even sends photographs to my boy friend by mail.This is perturbating me a lot thougn my guy says to me to avoid thinking about it and he loves me.. things like that.What do i do?
2007-06-03 04:56:09 · 21 answers · asked by ange 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
good god she sounds like a total maniac. Seriously, if she was a guy then the police would ahve got involved! I would mention to him that he must tell her to **** off or he's going to the old bill to report her for harrassment. I would knock ten shades of shee ite if any little trampy ho did that to my husband, seriously, she is a pathetic loser to lower herself to this kind of level. Laugh at her and don't worry about it, as long as your bf is honest with you you have got nothing to worry about.
xxxx
2007-06-03 05:01:11 · answer #1 · answered by CHARISMA 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First of all if your guy isn't paying any attention to her then you have nothing to worry about. Second, you have to stand up for yourself as well as your relationship to the girl and let her know what the consequences are when trying to come between you two. Third, she just want something she can't have and those kind of girls will do anything she can do get what she want and when she do; she will dump him too.
Look, your bf also have to tell the girl to back off and at least try to make her understand that he isn't interested in her in any way. If that doesn't work; then he have a problem to the point of having trouble.
2007-06-03 05:15:59 · answer #2 · answered by deniseywalker 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There is nothing you can do. You could beat her up, but then you could go to jail. You could destroy her car, or try to sabotage her life but that's not going to get you anything either. In the end you cause more problems for yourself.
Have you ever heard the old saying "If something loves you set it free, if it comes back it was meant to be" Not words I assume you really want to hear but the sentiment is true. If your boyfriend really loves you and respects your relationship than you don't have a thing to worry about. If he doesn't and ends up cheating on you ask yourself if he's the kind of guy you want to be with anyway.
2007-06-03 05:02:16 · answer #3 · answered by hthr_1974 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I was going through the same prob as you are a couple of months.. My boyfriend who I've been together for 6 yrs and I decided to take a break and when we were he had an ex one night stand keep on calling him and that gurl had a man. And we fought like cats and dogs. But I'm not going through that prob nemore.. I have his mom that cant stand me and i cant stand her b/c she and I fight everytime we see each other b/c she doesnt spend time with her granddaughter who is 2.5 yrs old.
2007-06-03 05:09:18 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Obtain legal advice. Seek a Restraining Order from a Judge.
Probably requires:
a) Document the stalker.
b) Try to obtain covert recordings of the voice.
c) Copy all paperwork.
d) Try to obtain hard copy from stalker that details intent.
e) Introduce third party witness evidence.
f) Introduce second party witness evidence.
2007-06-03 05:14:08 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
She is a bunny boiler of the first order - just ignore her she will get bored in the end when she doesnt get the response she is after. It you man loves you he will ignore her too or even tell her to push off. Either way she is a loser who just wants the attention starve her of that and she will back off.
2007-06-03 05:59:58 · answer #6 · answered by Magster 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Can't you both approch her, your boyfriend needs to tell her to back off and that he is not interested in her. If he won't do it then he's not much of a bf. Girls like her give women a bad name, she's trash. How can you avoid thinking about it, it would do my head in too. How would your bf feel if you had a guy sending you pictures of himself and asking you out? Could he forget about it? NOOOO, I don't think so!!!!
2007-06-03 05:08:38 · answer #7 · answered by DIANNE S 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Wow! Tell that skank ho to get her own man and keep her filthy lil paws off yours. You and your BF need to sit down and discuss how to handle the situation. And you BF, in your presence, needs to tell her to back off for real and that the next time she pulls her mess you're getting a restraining order. Depending on where you're at, if she violates those orders, her **** is in jail!!! lol
2007-06-03 05:03:16 · answer #8 · answered by sxydkangel 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If I was married to the sales insurance agent guy who I love very much and someone was disturbing our relationship I would trust him because I know that he loves me and not the other woman.
2007-06-03 05:03:18 · answer #9 · answered by Heidi T 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your boyfriend needs to step up to the mark and say it how it is Hun
you can not carry on like this he has to stand up and say something
Respect
shaz
2007-06-03 05:03:34 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋