ok so i really like him, he likes me. but he has a gf and i have a bf (whos his best friend) we've agreed to be friends. but we are really good friends and i love talking to him and spending time with him.
im not going to stop talking to him and stop spending time with him but i need to get over him.
how do i do this? and quick?
2007-06-03 04:29:47 · 10 answers · asked by empty rooms for you and me 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
If you were really good friends, they you wouldn't need to get over him.
The problem is you two are not really friends, at least you don't want to be you want more. The only thing you can do is not have him as a friend, it's the only thing that will work. Of course you don't want to do that for obvious reasons...
2007-06-03 04:32:37 · answer #1 · answered by Just a friend. 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you both agreed to be friends, then what*s the problem? If you don*t want to stop talking to him...I would suggest talking to him again and tell him you need some time away so you can get over him. There*s nothing wrong with that. But if you want a quick way then I suggest that. Once you do that...you two will be friends again in no time. You just also need to think about your boyfriend, it is disrespectful to him. Don*t just think about yourself, your only going to hurt other people in this situation. I hope things work out...its hard girl...but you gotta do it!!!
2007-06-03 11:43:33 · answer #2 · answered by krn 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sweetie, Best friends are the best ! When people get intamate that is usually the first thing to go. Best friends usually last a life time, lovers come and go most of the time. Make a choice, friends for life or lovers probobly for just awhile ! That is not being harsh unfortunetly this is the truth !
2007-06-03 11:46:10 · answer #3 · answered by lonewolf 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Good question. The best way to do this is really to:
1. Spend less time with him
2. Spend more one-on-one time with your boyfriend
Unfortunately as long as you're spending time with him; you'll never really get a chance to let those feelings cool down. It'll be hard, but once you get away from him for a while, your feels for your boyfriend will get stronger and overshadow your feelings for this friend.
Good luck!
2007-06-03 11:34:21 · answer #4 · answered by windy33 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
my friend is the same way she really likes this guy but every time she sees him he has a girlfriend. i told her to keep looking for now but when u have the chance with him take it and not walk away from it. just keep being friends and one day u and him will be together.
2007-06-03 11:35:32 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like you shouldn't be in a relationship with anyone right now. If you really care about your bf now.... you should just avoid the friend.
2007-06-03 11:36:32 · answer #6 · answered by Jessica 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
thats a really hard thing to do and it might be impossible. maybe you should follow your heart and try to go out with him. buyt that could hurt your bf. so its a pretty tough choice.
2007-06-03 11:33:19 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sorry, but there is no quick way.
Only time will make it go away.
2007-06-03 11:32:04 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Think why you don't want to be boyfriend girlfriend....isn't it because you still like your boyfriend??? if so..think of why you like your boyfriend and why you are deciding to keep him and not the other guy!! Good Luck!!!!!!
2007-06-03 11:36:15 · answer #9 · answered by Dancer4Ever 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it shows you you still have feeling for him so y go with somone else if you still like him... work it out cuz deep inside im pretty sure you wanna be wiht him ... you dont get over these feelings .. these feelings are precious dont waste it use it ... .... FREE TIBET..
2007-06-03 11:34:04 · answer #10 · answered by free_tibet 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋