Keep it clean I am serious, and I really dont care what guys have to say but if u think u have a good answer then man up!
2007-06-03 04:23:51 · 9 answers · asked by David L 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
Get used to the same ole routines and finding out that your life changes a lot. No more of the going and doing what you want when you want to, even just simple things you used to do. You have to let your wife know and consider her feelings, you routine at home is completely different. You become the guy that loves to work in the yard, do chores around the house and drink by the fire in your own yard because going out really doesn't serve a purpose if you can't go out and work the ladies. That's just reality, it's not as bad as it seems but is surely changes, I am assuming you are going to care about your wife and her feelings, if not then nothing will change.
2007-06-03 04:28:48 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Expect? I am going on 2 yrs marriage. I give what I think I should expect. I want a relationship that is honest, loving, fun and serious. So I do that.
I give my love to my wife, I tell her every single day. Not passing by the kitchen and saying it as though its expected. I will yell it if we are different rooms. It suprises her and she will come out with a smile and give a hug. Stop her in an aisle in the store and turn her around and tell her looking into her eyes. that works a treat.
Sit and have a conversation, no TV, PC, just you and her to discuss what has happened that day. Ask what she has been doing and listen without judgement, not saying how you would handle a situation unless you are directly asked.
I will take her places where we can laugh, even at each other.
I confide in her my worries about our future. (money, work, kids future)
Just give what you would like back dude. It works. So far at least.
2007-06-03 04:37:18 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
A man should expect love and companionship. I will not go into the "romantic" aspect of it, but if you both agree, you should expect that, too. Expect someone to talk to, someone to love, and someone to share your life with. Your wife should expect the same thing. If you want to be a father or are a father, she should expect you to respect that you have children and put your family in front of work sometimes.
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2007-06-03 04:29:02 · answer #3 · answered by Zoe Sampson 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
My idea of an ideal marriage, is of each person WANTING to do things for the other, and wanting to make the other happy. Communication. Work. Marriage is hard work, and it takes two people to put the effort in. It doesn't come naturally........ I wish it did! The biggest thing? Is NOT to expect anything!!!!!
2007-06-03 04:27:10 · answer #4 · answered by vega_five 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
by relationship, do you mean, 'adult' relations? Because you should expect and your wife should expect to not always be on the same schedule. Sometimes, you really just want to go to sleep when you go to bed, (and this may last for days or weeks....) other times...rev it up! You always want to give each other space...and dont go to bed angry.
2007-06-03 04:36:23 · answer #5 · answered by ShaMayMay 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
A man should expect to learn, learn, learn, negotiate, be flexible, learn to compromise, learn to commit if you haven't, get used to arguements esp about money. And it ain't easy, but number one is to be on the same page with religion and go to church or temple. Worshipping is huge. God must loom large in both lives!
2007-06-03 04:31:32 · answer #6 · answered by kim 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Be honest and loyal. Supportive... nothing different from when you were dating really.
O yeah, communication.... is usually makes or breaks any relationship.
2007-06-03 04:27:23 · answer #7 · answered by Jessica 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
to love oneanother and work toward the same goals.
Hopefully you two have a lot in common.
2007-06-03 04:27:57 · answer #8 · answered by freebird 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Oh what do i say! Im a 64yr male and have been having a not so good time with my wife of the same age!...been 64yrs married and she is wanting a divorce! not through Infadelity or any underhand things!...I am Bipolar and struggle in my everyday life and and all friends and fam are cool with that...just go wirh the flow.
She dosent keep to well in her self and i try to help her Lord Knows i do as much as i can but she sais she's had enought of me! might not be easy to live with sometimes but im always here for her and scearching for things on the web that could make her feel better cos i love her!...in distress G...how can i keep her....retort would be welcom................geomoultrie@hotmail.co.uk ...................more info
2014-05-12 03:14:38 · answer #9 · answered by jay hawk 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋