i had great friends in real life.i had a boyfriend.then i troll about and find yahoo anwers,it seemed fun to talk to different people.
i invite a friend to join to join then it went downhill.wont go into it,a big fight happend with him and a few people and i get blamed for it because of him being an idiot.
i know i should not let things get to me as what would they know?but i fell out with my friend,we dont speak anymore.i am depressed now.for no reason at all yesterday my mum hit me with a frying pan.
i dont know what to do with my life anymore or how to get it back on track.
2007-06-03 01:15:05 · 21 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
The problem lies just where you said,Yahoo answers.You can keep the email address,sign up for other things,but leave Yahoo answers for abit or for good.Phone your friend(s) or go to their/his/her house to make up,you will feel loads better.
You said it yourself really,why let it get to you?why did you?and as for your mum,i suggest you call childline if you are young or move in with a friend asap.Or maybe something is wrong with your mums life.Talk to her? :)
You will be alot closer then if you do talk.Dont bottle things up inside.
2007-06-03 02:02:42 · answer #1 · answered by dusk_to_moonbeam 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't know how old you are, but your Mom should never hit you with a frying pan! Do I need to come over there and hit her with my frying pan? What the hell? If your mom is abusive then that could be a huge part of why you feel so bad. Please try to get away from that situation. As for your friends- they will still be your friends if they are good people. Remember, it is better to have a few good friends than a lot of crappy ones. Sift through the jerks and keep the quality friends you have because you deserve only the best! You need to look at yourself in the mirror and realize that you are special ! Walk with your head held high and do not let that boy friend of yours control you, because that is what he is trying to do!
2007-06-03 01:28:45 · answer #2 · answered by fandiguyswife 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First you need to know this, Everything is temporary.
Things can and do happen for No reason.
To get back on track may not be the best solution , finding a new and better path may be the better way.
Develop yourself, find a interest that you can enjoy and develop (isn't harmful ) for example- cooking, horticulture, art drawing ,painting sculpture etc. When you are becoming your own best friend others will want to be your friends that are happy with themselves too. Positive energy will result.
2007-06-03 01:25:56 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well seems like life isn't going to well for you at the moment, really i find the story you told is kinda confusing, but from what i understand your mate got into trouble with the people which he was specking to on yahoo!Answer, and blamed you for it. From this point if you know he is acting like an idiot don't feel like its your fault. And about your mum hitting you with the frying pan i can't really say anything because i don't know what the situation or how the relationship is with your mum for me to give advice. But i think you should try talking to someone who is close to you about it.
2007-06-03 01:34:33 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You're not a bad person. I think it's best to detach yourself from the past. Your sister has made a mistake in treating you so terrible, but it's best to be the better person. It's hard to forgive, but she may have been suffering emotionally or mentally in her life to treat you that way. You didn't deserve it so it's better to know it's not your fault to feel hurt. But it is better to release yourself from that pain by not carrying around your sister's wrongs anymore. She probably realizes what she did was terrible. Let her kick herself down while you pull yourself back up. It may be hard but send her good hope for health. You don't owe her anything, but it's good to show love in the face of adversity.
2016-04-01 13:09:30 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Get off Yahoo ,go out in the sunshine ,I take it you still have the b/f because it sounds like just a friend you fell out with. good job we can all find new friends, but not on here go find real ones.
Your Mum has no right to hit you with anything ,get her arrested!
No seriously cheer up liefs good it you get rid of the idiots in it .Have a star
2007-06-03 01:38:08 · answer #6 · answered by Mary D 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
ok I'm gonna start by saying I'm sorry for you and will pray for you and your swollen head. Your friends don't really seem ike friends to me so I would try to get a new group of friends. If they really are your friends then tell then strait forward "I'm sorry that this happened to you but there is no use fighting over this now it's already happened so you can choose to stay mad at me but that won't change anything." or try to join a class and meet new friends. You need a boyfriend as much as a fish needs a bycicle so don't stress to mush about having to get a boyfriend.Good Luck Hon!
2007-06-03 01:27:47 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
It's not how hard you can hit, it's how many times you can get hit and keep moving forward.
Keep your head up. Friends come and go. If they are a real friend, the fight will end as quick as it started.
Good luck.
Smile.
2007-06-03 01:23:36 · answer #8 · answered by Stev 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
however hard life might seem right now......we all have the power within us to get it back on track......yr b/f you have to put behind you.....see if you can fix yr relationship with yr mum.....it might just be a case of talking with her and getting the communication back....ask her what led her to physically hit you as that needs to be addressed......as for yr friends....a lot of the time we say things .....when we are technically right...but .....tactically wrong....it just means we have to accept that ok we are right but not to ram it down someones throat just to prove it.....there can be a greater power in silence and letting others win ......not all the time just sometimes....
2007-06-03 01:22:34 · answer #9 · answered by scottish football ....nuff said 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Life is like snakes and ladders the only difference between a winner and a loser is the time it takes to find a ladder
2007-06-03 01:18:30 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋