I keep on shouting at my friends when I am mad and my friends said I won't get any friends if i shout so i want to be a good friend please help!
2007-06-03 00:11:13 · 8 answers · asked by Denis 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
U know, what i think is most important in friendship is to be the best listener and advicer that ur friend could ever have...u got to listen to what ur friend says...and once in a while ask about that problem of hers that she had talked to u about, sounding concerned and if possible suggest some remedies..and even if u find her fault, dont say it out loud..she came to u to unburden her pain, not to hear ur critices..and u keep reminding ur friend that u remember what all u both talk about..thats enough qualities for a lasting friendship..then she wont mind even if u shout at her once in a while
2007-06-03 00:52:29 · answer #1 · answered by salma 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Stop shouting at your friends. No one, not even a dog likes to be shouted at. Do you want someone to shout at you all the time? Start working on your anger issues so you can improve your character before you lose all your friends.
2007-06-03 07:13:55 · answer #2 · answered by Patty G 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well, obviously you're looking at your problem there so fix that first.
Different people may wants different friends, some wants one that is always honest to them and correct them when they are wrong, some wants one who's always supportive of them even when they're wrong.
But no one wants one who shouts all the time. You have to manage your anger issues, channel it eleswhere and don't release them on your friends each time you're mad. Talk to them if you wants to but if you don't, dont release your anger onto others.
2007-06-03 07:19:02 · answer #3 · answered by Hornet One 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First thing you need to do is find out WHY YOUR MAD, your the one that is hurting and you are taking it out on them.
Are you having problems at home, with family or with school.
If you are talk to a Priest, Pastor, Aunt or Uncle or school counselors
To be a good friend is to be Honest, Listen and Loyal, and enjoy the friend/s your with.
If there are asking you to do something your heart says is wrong, there not your friend/s.
2007-06-03 07:32:13 · answer #4 · answered by Linda S 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Be a good listener, be willing to lend a hand, do not shout at friends.
2007-06-03 07:20:05 · answer #5 · answered by debk 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Stop shouting at people, that wouild be a good start.
2007-06-03 07:15:02 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
try to control your anger.. and try not to be angry always.. just leave your anger with a big smile so you'll be safe..lol..
2007-06-03 07:30:40 · answer #7 · answered by ô,ô 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
be kind, be loyal, speak in a normal tone, etc
2007-06-03 07:13:24 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋