Do you complain?

Question

I find it strange when someone complains about me.. being mean or not being open with them or not being very close to them (including family members) I never complain about anyone as long as they live and let me live. Why do people depend on others? I don’t like to depend on anyone. I never like to ask a favor to anyone even if they are very close to me. I feel like dying if I had to ask someone for some help.

Anything wrong with me or is it normal?

Answer 1

I don't think anyone likes to have to ask for help, however, there may come a time in your life when you need help getting through something and you don't really have a choice. I have been there.
I have always been very independent and sort of a loner. In 97 I was in a near fatal car accident that left my body broken and in the hospital for 8 months where I almost died. During this time I had to ask for help with taking care of my personal things and responsibilities.....I had no choice because I couldn't do it myself. I'll tell you, at a time like that, you really find out who your true friends are rather quickly and few stick around for the long haul, but family is always there. I learned some hard lessons during this time and one of them was that no one loves you like your family does. It sounds to me like your family may be complaining that they don't have a close enough relationship with you and they want to. Consider yourself a lucky person to have such a family who cares about you that much and wants you to be a part of them. Many people don't have anybody to confide in, rely on or turn to in times of trouble. Trust me, one day you will be thankful that your family is there for you. Try opening up a little with them. It won't hurt but may be a blessing in the long run.

Answer 2

I don't think that's very normal. Especially the fact that you think you don't depend on anyone. I mean, unless you did not have parents, I'm sure that at some point you were dependent on someone to get you out of dirty diapers, feed you, teach you talk, walk, ride your first bike, read, write, type, use a computer, etc. So as for that, look around, you depend on others much more than you think.

Answer 3

Nothing is wrong with that, however, there are times you might have to lower your self and ask for a favor from any body. It does not have to be your family member.its how we humans being and other beings on the planet live.

Answer 4

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Answer 5

Excuse me but, I mean no ill intentions: MY brother is like you. I haven't seen or spoken to him in fifteen years now.
His marraige of many years failed due to this, he's had over seven live in girls, married, I heard, four of them, all failed.
After an almost atercation that ended up in me having to threaten him with a gun, he attacked my wife over something she said. I called his military psychiatrist. He of course wouldn't tell me much but after hearing what happen he said "he lives in a bubble, he allows you to ented if you feel like him, talk like him and act like him" He at no time will get close to you, for fear of loosing, he will keep his distance, offering no help, asking for none, this way he owes people nothing, this includes his wife and kids.
I spoke with his wife, one of them. She said he was wonderful but, the "but" she couldn't get close to him, he kept her at a distance, she felt shut out all the time.
He had this shroud all around him for protection and kept everyone away.
He now lives on the streets, used all his friends up that tried to help him, he's getting old and doesn't know or have anyone close to him.

If you feel that this fits your description be careful, your a great person but, remember, there are other people in the world and, they are friendly, they want to talk, to assimulate with you, they want to be close. Don't end up like my brother.

Sad for one brother that I love and can't even hold.

Answer 6

I do the same thing. I think there is something wrong with me. I'm in the closet for depression.

Answer 7

i hate when people complain *sarcasm*

Answer 8

no

Answer 9

f this.