In high school i had so many guys who liked me alot but they never got the guts to ask me out?? Why am i that scary??? Why i dun get it?? Am i intemidating? Im the most bubbly person around and i never hurt anyon's feeling so why so afraid??
Oh yea and ill never ask a guy out that wud make me look very desperate
2007-06-02 22:39:49 · 10 answers · asked by ILOVEU 5 in Entertainment & Music ➔ Polls & Surveys
Well,
TO ANSWER U AGAIN FOR THAT QUESTION...
I would simply say BECAUSE U R FAR HIGHER & BETTER THAN ANY OF THEM IN MANY WAYS...
Thoughts....
Feelings.....
Deeds.....
Comprehension....
Decision-Making...
Far-sightedness...
Perspective....
Judgement....
Personality....
Strength...
Tenderness...
Guts...
Attitude...
Respect...
Conceatedness...
Confidence...
Reality...
Come on ILOVEU....
U Know yourself far better than others....
U ve got to answer yourself for this question...
No one would do better than u...
Apparently...U needed a more MATURED PERSON to judge u right & treat u good, and deal with u as u deserved ...
Take care...
2007-06-03 09:18:40 · answer #1 · answered by FOREVER AUTUMN 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You're somewhat like the perfect girl (or so you say) so that would imtimedate guys and make them feel weak or like they're not good enough for you, Perfect girls scare guys. Try to act casual and friendly towards guys and talk to them as friends instead of waiting for them to ask you out. If you don't talk to them, they'll never know how you feel. They might even think that you observe guys with disdain or consider yourself to be too good for them. Just be friendly to everyone and hang out with the guys you like. Also, asking out guys isn't desperate unless you fall to your knees and beg. If it was desperate, sensible guys wouldn't want to look desperate and no one would never ask anyone else out.
2007-06-03 05:48:38 · answer #2 · answered by waddlin' along 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What's the real reason you would never ask a guy out? Because you fear rejection, that's why! So do all the guys who wanted to talk to you during HS but never mustered the nerve. Rejection sucks!
Asking a guy out doesn't make you look desperate, that's just nonsense.
2007-06-03 05:44:27 · answer #3 · answered by eggman 7 · 4⤊ 0⤋
My oldest son has liked the same girl for years. He's never told her that or asked her out and I've asked him why. (She's a really nice girl.) His explanation was that she's popular and that there are many more that likes her. Why would she want him when there are so many others that she can pick from?
eggman nailed it. It's fear of rejection.
2007-06-03 05:46:25 · answer #4 · answered by ..... 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
you have a very big personality baby
I picked that up straight away and added you
guys are insecure so I'm afraid you're gonna have to wink at some one and blame it on your great sense of humour.
I don't even know you and I like you !!
2007-06-03 06:50:15 · answer #5 · answered by crr_rndy 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I've been asked out by girls before. I never thought they were desperate.
2007-06-03 05:48:36 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
coz no-one likes popular kids.
go on then, give me thumbs-down. see if i care
2007-06-03 05:48:25 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
don't worry, Mr right will come
2007-06-03 05:42:29 · answer #8 · answered by Mag 7 · 0⤊ 2⤋
i donn0
2007-06-03 05:42:42 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 3⤋
cuzzz! just cuzzz!
2007-06-03 05:42:41 · answer #10 · answered by stnkrbn 2 · 1⤊ 3⤋