She went out late last night with me - partied - came home at 2 AM, then she called her boyfriend. He has switched off. In anger she called her boyfriend's father and made her friend's boyfriend ask for him then told the dad that the call was from abroad so he would give it to the son. He was sleeping in the next room. The boyfriend screamed and yelled at her for disturbing his dad at 2 AM and hung up.
This morning he called her and again screamed and abused her. Told her that the chances of marriage were very slim coz she didn't respect his sick mother who has Alzeimers and cannot sleep. My friend was sobbing and begging him to forgive her. She agreed she has made a big mistake out of anger and the impulse of the moment.
He told her to never call and that the relationship was broken off.
Is this over for her? Should she call him back? What do you think is best?
She cannot eat, cannot talk, is always crying and just so worked up.. very guilty and she is truly a very nice girl
2007-06-02 21:45:18 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Entertainment & Music ➔ Polls & Surveys
A girl who never see's her the repercussions of her doings...
2007-06-02 21:51:20 · update #1
Sorry about the typing error;
A girl who never see's the repercussions of her doings...
2007-06-02 21:51:58 · update #2
Ummm...she shouldn't have called him at 2:00 am in the morning. She DID disturb his dad but he shouldn't have yelled at her, but he himself most likely disturbed his dad by screaming and yelling. OMG, did he except his sick mother to sleep or his dad while he was screeching at your friend over the phone? If he loved her he would talk it over in his "Mommy's sleeping...shhh" voice and would have forgiven her. She did call and that was wrong, but her boyfriend (ex, maybe) is hurting her dilebrately and overreacting. She wasn't cheating on him, abusing him, screaming, denying her mistakes. She made a mistake, she fessed up and I take it she isn't going to call him at 2:00 am (if ever again) in the morning if they get back together. Be there for your friend and pass notes by way of communication. If he really loved her this wouldn't be happening. Moving on is hard, but it will be A BIG relief when it's over. Also, try to get her to eat. Starving herself isn't going to help her.
2007-06-02 21:56:57 · answer #1 · answered by waddlin' along 7 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Send flowers to the boyfriend's parents apologizing for her inconsiderate actions. Tell her to be honest and ask for forgiveness and if it would be possible to talk things out in person. Cleaning things with the father comes first. Send a loving gift to her boyfriend also with deep regret is next asking him to talk-this is done after the talk with the father. Promise NEVER TO DRINK AGAIN. The alcohol kills, friendships, marriages, and people.
2007-06-02 22:04:37 · answer #2 · answered by grannywinkie 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
guy sounds a bit of a jerk, is he really angry that she called, or is it because she was out till 2am? if its because she called, then hes no big loss, if he really loved her he wouldnt have put his own phone off and just be glad he heard from her, if its because she went out without him, hes angry at himself for being jealous and taking it out on her as an excuse, either way i feel its a mentality that it will be hard to rationalize with, probably not what she wants to hear, but its how it looks from what you've told us
2007-06-02 21:50:40 · answer #3 · answered by ♠ Merlin ♠ 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
When a relationship is hard & uneasy, then it's not meant to be. Its not about who's right, who's wrong. It's about 2 people fitting together.
Tell her life is much much bigger than her boyfriend.
2007-06-02 21:53:18 · answer #4 · answered by listeningroom 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
He told her it was over and never to call again leave him alone and if he choses to forgive he will and if he decides to call he will.
2007-06-02 21:50:48 · answer #5 · answered by hourglass_beauty 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If it were me it would be over....no chance for healing the wounds...she should be looking for a new man...and hopefully learns from this stupid mistake
2007-06-02 21:54:52 · answer #6 · answered by chiefof nothing 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I think she should give him some space till he has cooled down...hopefully then he'll have forgiven her and give her a call.
2007-06-02 21:49:27 · answer #7 · answered by salstick 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
no she shouldn't call him back and this over for her.
2007-06-02 21:51:42 · answer #8 · answered by Mag 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋