I don't get it. Are there hidden rules to understanding each other? Who cares about who wins? Why do women get upset about everything? All I ask for is some understanding, some compassion, some intelligent human interaction?
It's always something sexual, some attraction or something emotionally moving. Is it so difficult to understand of how limited our time is on earth, and how little of meaning we bring as individuals. Where is the root cause for all of this confusion and frustration?
2007-06-02 21:09:49 · 4 answers · asked by Ilya S 3 in Social Science ➔ Sociology
Different priorities and needs leads to conflict.
2007-06-03 05:48:18 · answer #1 · answered by Clown Knows 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You ever hear of the book , Men are from Mars, Women are from Venus....men and women speak two different languages. As a man you would say it is women's fault. Your statement "why do women get upset about everything" tells me your not understanding the language..
A women needs to discuss stuff, take care of business, so to speak. Not let problems go but discuss them and then settle them..They don't even have to settle them, just discussing them and being heard can sometimes be enough....Women will get more upset when a man doesn't understand what they are trying to say and more importantly, not be willing to just sit down and discuss it.... Men tend to want to let the little stuff go. They don't understand a women's need to get it out. Men walk away from problems so they can think about it, and maybe come back to it, or decide it isn't important and let it go. Men have a need to fix problems and if they can not be fixed they get frustrated, sitting and discussing a problem with no obvious answer is not something men do easily. No gender is wrong just different. As with any foreign language, if you learn it you can communicate better...get the book..
2007-06-03 00:31:19 · answer #2 · answered by She Said 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Wow that is an incredibly hard question to answer, I believe even understand it but i get some of it and I'm just going to answer the bottom half of the question. Actually i don't think I can even answer that I just wanna say I think about that stuff a lot, and it is very depressing.
2007-06-02 21:20:08 · answer #3 · answered by Derek 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It seems our brains work differently. Also check out the monologues page
2007-06-02 21:21:11 · answer #4 · answered by Don't Try This At Home 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋