Are all girls from the philippines like this?

Question

I have been chatting with a girl in Bayugan for 9 mo. now she has never ask for money realy but i have sent about 180,000 pesos to her in the last 9 mo. i am here now in Bayugan and have found out everything she has said almost is a lie from her kid to money she has lied about the price of everything she said 8,000 peso per week for food for two a sim card she told me was 1000 pesos internet 50 pesos per hr. This is my 2nd time here to see her and it is hard for her to hide now all the lies but yet she told the police here that i was here to use her and was scared i would use other girls here as well i think the main thing is i not pay for her brothers school and cut the pesos down to 12,000 per mo. to live on for me and her and no money to mama just us almost forget she has hit me a few times locked me in a room so i cant leave her man i moved from the USA to the Philippines to find a good wife so am i the bad guy for not suporting all of them i moved out of her house now

Answer 1

i hardly see any fullstops in ur writings. I'm so blur...

Answer 2

No,, simply not true,,but dangle money in front of desparate people, and they will find a way to take it,and want more. This gal is using you, just like I was used, until the money well got capped. Accept the reality you already revealded you know, and run from her! Philippine custom is,, what I have is yours,,what you have, is mine, and all of my family,,near and far...,,,lots of excuses to need more, and more, and more. She will milk you dry, and throw you out,,so,,run while you can! Been there,,done that! her comments to cops is to sacre you into submission,,, do NOT do it,, cops there are scared of you, and might try to milk money from you,, but, whip the cops's butts, and they will respect you. been there,,done that. Do NOT let the cops take you anywhere, for any reason, at all,,or,, you dam yourself.

Answer 3

Of course not, maybe you have just landed to a wrong girl. You better get out from that situation at once. You have no obligation to support the family especially that you are not married to her. From your words it seems that the girl is only taking advantage of your money. Try to find a trusted girl. There are plenty of girls out there who are honest and are wife material. Test her first before finally taking her as a wife. Ask opinions from other Filipina or better yet post it here in Y. Answers for advise.

Answer 4

i think of you need to bypass out extra in many circumstances. meaning why no longer commute the international in the previous you end something like this. i'm a Filipino myself, yet i would not brag too a lot approximately merchandising that Filipina women is the main ideal to me. confident they're, yet once you ensue to bypass to different places esp. the middle Easter fringe of the international or to Europe you will say to your self "did I say that". Filipina women do no longer monopolize splendor in its very own context or words. once you're taking journeys in Malaysia or in Thailand, maximum females right here additionally resembles Filipina splendor. So probably you won't be able to tell who's who're the Thai or the Filipina or Malaysians. you're in basic terms attracted to FILIPINA women because of the fact of your those days missionary journeys interior the Philippines. that's form of a individual who lives in a house, who in basic terms is established together with his very own residence and tell each and every individual who his house is the main captivating homestead interior the section because of the fact he by no ability commute to the different fringe of his very own city. It occurs like that. And whilst he long previous to that different place, he became into stunt or ask your self to locate homes a lot captivating than his very own. See my factor right here or no longer yet? desire seminar?

Answer 5

Sorry about that but not all filipina's are alike. It's not the nationality that matters but the personality of an individual..it just so happen that you are unlucky with the girl you chose. Poverty is the main reason I see here that triggers her to lie to you.

Answer 6

Hey, man, wake up. You are being used by her. Get her out of your life and find a more deserving woman. If you like Filipinas, there will be many more much better for sure.

Cut your losses and move on with your life. If you do not want to be in Philippines, go back to the US.

I am sure you know what you have to do.

Answer 7

i am very sorry for you Douglas,but you know you can always extend help to your girl but it is not your obligation to take care her all family or else you are going to marry the whole family/place..lol!there is a misconception among the brains of the Filipino people,they thought that if you have a foreigner boyfriend,they are expecting that you have plenty of money...it is better for you to talk this matter very seriously,if the the girl loves you she will tell you everything if not,then it is time for you to wake up!there are many girls serious girls wanting to have a serious affair with a foreigner...try to look around...goodluck!

Answer 8

Man oh man...well, honestly, not all girls in my country are like her. So, next time, get to know the girl "better" first before living with her or sending money, etc.

Answer 9

Don't generalize it - but you're being sucked by the one you got! If not, her lifestyle is just too classy. It's her you want to live with not her whole family! Seems like she's well experienced. Get lose as fast as you can.

Answer 10

she is so not worth it!!! That's a gold digger right there but I can assure you not all filipinas are like that. I don't get why u have to go all the way to the philippines. There's alot of good filipinas here in the United States. I'm sorry but it sounds like you have some issues with your self and self-esteem. You're worth more than this. You deserve better!

Answer 11

Unfortunately you have met a desperate & clever woman, not all are like that, I have found generally that most are honest, I met a Filipino lady purely by accident on the net, we talked alot & she asked me if I could help her finacially which was very little in $ terms, as she had just graduated & she was responsible for the family income.
We are getting married in 4 weeks time, go to www.filipinofriendfinder.com
Their are 1000's of genuine ladies who seek a good man, close the door on this experience & start afresh with a nice Filipino lady who will love you genuinely, seeing your their it wont take long.
Good luck.