Have you ever felt like you could be just as happy without having a partner in your life? And i dont mean like at a time when you felt bitter about the opposite gender or anything like that...i just mean like in a totally calm and honest mood, have ever thought about just living your life without including the person you will one day fall in love with (if you havent already fallen in love with someone that is, of course) in your future dreams?
2007-06-02 14:37:39 · 13 answers · asked by Jaded 7 in Entertainment & Music ➔ Polls & Surveys
Or do all your dreams always include the eventual inclusion of your dream guy or girl?
2007-06-02 14:38:39 · update #1
Thank you so much everyone for your deep and thoughtful answers. I truly appreciate your honesty. Thank you! :)
2007-06-04 06:18:12 · update #2
Wow, what a coincidence! I've just been thinking about that these past few days. Well, I've never been into a relationship yet and I just thought what if I just get old without having someone. You see, I have this fear of relationships. I mean, I'm scared of pleasing my man every day, being cheated on, and my guy looking at other girls behind my back, so and so. I don't know if I'm not just ready for it but that's how I've been thinking about it. But despite of it all, at the same time, I feel that there's so much love and care I want to give to one and only one special someone. My heart beats fast just thinking about it but my fears kept crashing in. Lol, but anyway, if someday a miracle comes that someone would like me for me out of the million girls in the world, I might give it a chance. Who knows, it might change how I feel towards my fears. I really don't know. Let's just see what will happen.
2007-06-02 14:55:03 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
i have never been in love...not even remotly close. but i couldn't imagine living life without a partner. I'm a believer in soul mates so i everyone has someone they're meant to be with. i can understand being content with yourself and being independent, but i think people were made to have someone with them. why be capable of feelings like love if you're not meant to have them. (that's a line from Tristan & Islode)
2007-06-02 21:43:23 · answer #2 · answered by :] 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
No way could I be just as happy without him. I've been on both sides of the fence and it's much better when there's that special someone there with you.
2007-06-02 21:41:40 · answer #3 · answered by sharpeilvr 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
ive been single for the last 3 yrs and im actually enjoying it. im not looking for or waiting for a nice guy and when i plan my life out in my mind there is only me and my daughter...never a guy in the equation so i guess that im happy with it being just me and my daughter. i think i would be fine if i never met the ONE.
2007-06-02 21:44:52 · answer #4 · answered by andie 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I'm actually very content on my own Jaded.
I have my own private reasons but I am not looking.
I have daughters and family and a successful life. I'm quite happy.
2007-06-02 21:41:58 · answer #5 · answered by JC 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
i have felt like i can be happy alone
but the thought will always come that it would be nice to have someone to share it with
2007-06-02 21:42:15 · answer #6 · answered by kimm0101 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
My dreams are crowded.... there is God and a partner in them.. I would not ever consider my future without either.
2007-06-02 21:43:25 · answer #7 · answered by Monique S 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I believe I could be happy but I wouldn't want to find out.
2007-06-02 21:41:37 · answer #8 · answered by daljack -a girl 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I've always known that whether I'm with someone or alone that I'll be happy
2007-06-02 21:41:53 · answer #9 · answered by ♥ Ladylike ♥ 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
all i want out of life and everything I hope to achieve...I want the love of my life right by my side....there is nothing better than to share your life with someone who you love and loves you back....if you have that love for each other, life will be worthwhile and you will want to share the moments....
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2007-06-02 21:42:01 · answer #10 · answered by k. 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋