Mean friends?

Question

Ok so there is this girl casey and we have been BFF's for 3 yeras but this year we got sepparted in class and she's whith this group of really mean girls and whenever i say Hi during break she murmers hi and walks on not even looking back so then i get home and she calls me and is all like oh let's have a sleepover tonight. I am so hurt because at school she treats me like dog **** but she is nice to me when i she is away from the crowd at home. Any d=suggestions? oh and this year we were going to do the talent show but at the last minute she said no, because she was scared but i really wanted to be in the talentshow. but i didn't say anything as it turns out she was in the talent show with her other friends, she said it was no big deal

I know i should cut off connection but her family is so nice to me

She's ignoring me on AIM

Answer 1

(been there) well she probably thinks shes to cool for u at school
u should try to branch out i know its hard but it always comes handy to have other ppl on ur side so try to make new friends and next time she calls just tell her the truth or tell her no its not fair that she just uses u when shes at school and has those girls with her she just says yea wtv i dont care about u but when shes alone she calls and asks can we meet up or something? thats just really rude good luk :D

Answer 2

If she is your real friend then she would step away from the group of mean girls and hang with you, but ifthis is the path she is choosing then dump her to the curb treat her the same way she treats you and if yoou lose her as a friend then just move on show her that you don't need her make new friends get a boyfriend have parties and when she is all alone because her "friends" dumped her and she calls you and asks if she can sleep over just say sorry I already have someone over.

Answer 3

I think you should either confront her, talk to her, tell her how you really feel, and give her a choic, or show her what she's done to you. When she asks for sleepovers, tell her you're going w/ friends, etc., and actually GO. And no, i do not see this as mean because she's done the same to you. It's not fair for you...
And I suggest if you really want to do something, do it. Don't stop yourself just because so-and-so said something.

Answer 4

Maybe she doesn't want to be youe friend anymore.
It may be hard but, make some new friends!
Maybe show her that you can be just like her!
And she might think 'Hey, I know her! She's real popular now. Maybe I should go hang with her!' And then the fight will be over!
But, if that doesn't work you still have a buch of new friends!

Answer 5

That is not a true friend b/c she would stick with you at school or out, and would not have entered the talent show with the other girls, and dumped you. So seperate from her, and find a true friend that likes you in and outside of school.

Answer 6

it sounds like she has outgrown you so to speak. she thinks these girls are better than you, or are more popular than you so she is hanging out with them to perhaps gain popularity.
She is not a real friend because if she were really there for you she would not treat you this way.
You dont need her as a friend because she does not appreciate you. So do yoursef a favor and get rid of this fake friend. best of luck!

Answer 7

She's no friend. If she calls, tell her you're about to leave and can't talk. Sorry. Say the same thing each time until she stops. She might say she's sorry for having treated you shabbily at school, but I doubt It. She is no friend. New ones, please.

Answer 8

Forget her ethier shes ur friend or not. If she treats u like **** at school then ignore. It her problem not urs u deserve better. Good Luck

Answer 9

She is not your friend. Just end the friendship. If you ain't good enough to speak to in front of her new friends then you ain't good enough to speak to you at home.

Answer 10

Maybe if she's not willing to be seen with you at school, she's not really your friend...