i hate my husband?

Question

he is the worst husband ever he doesnt even try to act like he cares but i think i still love him but i cant stand him but im scared to move on what if i never find anyone do u get what im trying to say any advice please oh yeah counseling doesnt work

Answer 1

get a divorce

Answer 2

There is nothing you can get out of a one sided relationship. You need to ask yourself if you're getting what you want. If he isn't treating you right, you're better off on your own anyway. It can be scary venturing out into the world sometimes. We all have our little safety nets, but don't let a bad relationship turn yours into a noose. Most of the people I know who've had a divorce and/or left a BAD relationship were SOOOOO relieved, like a heavy burden had been lifted. I say move on, start meeting new people today!!!

Answer 3

Well...If you REALLY think you care try to stay with him a bit more longer or until you can't handle it. Try talking to him telling him you don't think the relationship is going to work if you keep acting like this! Don't be scared to move on! I'm pretty sure someone will find you and you will love him better! Hope this somewhat helps you! Good Luck!
JoJo

Answer 4

If you hate your hubby but you are afraid to leave the relationship because you don't want to be alone, now is the best time to get a divorce. You need to be alone so you can get to know yourself all over again. If you just think you hate your hubby, maybe you need a little vacation just to have some time just to yourself. I always feel better and refreshed about myself and what I want in my life when I just get away for a day or too. Whatever you do my wishes are with you and best of luck too.

Answer 5

If counseling hasn't helped, get out. As someone else said, it's better than being miserable. Yes, you're scared of the unknown. You'll have to grieve the loss of your marriage, but there are groups out there for that.

But I think you'll be surprised at the weight lifted off your shoulders once you make a decision.

Answer 6

I know exactly what your saying. I have been married 5 years and have 2 kids and I want to leave my husband too sometimes. I think you really have to take a step back and ask yourself what are the pros and cons of this marriage. Because don't stay just because you don't think you won't find any one else.

Answer 7

get out of there hon, you think you love him but you are afraid of making your own way, I wasted 17 years like that and once I made the move it was the best ever. It will give you self respect and confidence that he seems to have stripped away.....and oh boy you will meet some one else that respects you and makes you feel special cos you are!

Answer 8

If you were a size 2 with long beautiful hair, shiny white teeth, and clean sharp outfits, would you still worry about getting another guy? No, you would have already left! It's time to stop looking at your husbands character, personality, annoying quirks, and start looking at yourself. Diet like you mean it! Exercise like your life depended on it. If and when you start liking yourself again, then I bet your husband will reciprocate!

Answer 9

My advise is to ask him what's wrong. Confront him with your feelings and opinions. If he seems concerned or if he reacts to what you say by coming around, then you two should councel yourselves. If he still doesn't seem interested in you, pack your bags and leave. He might wake up when you're gone, and if he does the ball will be in your court to decide what to do next. If he doesn't try to come for you, head down to the courthouse and file for divorce. "If it is meant to be, it will come back to thee"

Answer 10

sounds like you hate being alone more....and that's what you need to ask yourself. why do you hate being alone? being alone is a great opportunity to do something for yourself. you have a lot of time being alone to invest in yourself, whether it's a hobby, for career purposes, or personal such as exercising.....

you shouldn't stay with your husband just cause you don't want to be alone. desperation smells as bad as body odor. once you're comfortable being alone, you more than likely will not have that problem if you choose not to.

Answer 11

Sounds to me like you have insecurity issues. If you don't love him and can see your life without him you WILL be able to make it on your own. Once you start loving yourself you will find the love of your life but only when you're ready.