Well, we're not divorced yet. We haven't seen each otehr for months and have only spoken recently re: his mother's health. But I noticed one of his favorite musicians is in town tonight. Should I call him to let him know? I doubt he knows and he could use the stress relief. But I have a BF now (who's outta town...near his own ex!). Would it cause my estranged hubby MORE stress if I say let's hang out tonight? Is it wrong since have a BF?
2007-06-02 09:44:43 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
It would be nice of you to let him know about the concert.. But nothing says you have to go with him.. You can just say "I thought you might enjoy the break"
2007-06-02 09:48:10 · answer #1 · answered by maccrew6 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
It's best not to call the soon to be ex, it will only cause problems in the long run. I'm sure he could use some relief for stress, but it is better that you don't give that to him. Your boyfriend is away so it is easy to be lonely and want someone to talk too, but is it the right thing to do?
2007-06-02 17:23:32 · answer #2 · answered by Krinta 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Let's say that it would be nice for you to let him know, but don't offer your company. That is a two way blade! He might think you still have the hots for him or other might think that and it can get to your BF ears... I understand that your BF is out of town close to his ex but he might be doing right by you.. Would you like him to hang out with his ex? I don't think so...
Don't get into that mess.. You might mean well but it can cut you later... Good luck.. Choose wisely...
2007-06-03 00:26:25 · answer #3 · answered by Kaykee 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well it sounds like you guys are some what civil to each other. You could just call him and tell him the bands in town, not necessary that he has to go with you. You could tell him to just give him a heads up.
2007-06-02 16:57:54 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You're grown. What do you want to do? Sound like a fair deal but will your BF be seeing his ex while he is away? If you are still married to this guy I guess it wouldn't hurt being there for him. Who knows, you may reconnect.
2007-06-02 16:59:10 · answer #5 · answered by Spirited Virgo 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He is your husband. Why are you not divorced? No, I do not think you will cause him more stress, he may appreciate the distraction. If he knows you have a boyfriend there should not be a problem. Or are you feeling more than you want to admit? Hummm..........
2007-06-02 16:53:03 · answer #6 · answered by Tina #1 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, it's the other way around. It's "wrong" that you have a BF while you're still married!
If you want to call your ex, that's your choice. n
2007-06-02 16:59:31 · answer #7 · answered by Nikki 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Another mixed up kid in the making
2007-06-02 16:49:29 · answer #8 · answered by dad 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
it's wrong it would seem like your still interested ... send him an email.
2007-06-02 16:52:13 · answer #9 · answered by Timothy S 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
why bother? are you lonesome to-night?
2007-06-02 16:51:34 · answer #10 · answered by ubon 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋