I love my hubby. We have been married for almost two years and we have lately hit a rough patch. I find myself thinking about an ex more and more often. I chose my hubby and left my past in my past, but I wonder why the ex is so much in my thoughts these days. I get that part of the reason is because hubby and I are having a rough time right now and that it's natural to think about the past, but I wonder if there is another reason? For those with a touch of the ESP... any ideas?
2007-06-02 07:08:14 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Society & Culture ➔ Mythology & Folklore
Hi,
Your past always finds away of coming back to you. Espically when you least want it too. Your find that it's very normal to think of a past relationship. We tend to look back at how we got through things with them or find ourselves saying, "it was never like this with (name)". Don't allow yourself to think about your situation with your ex or any other ex's for that matter. Too often we all live in the past, more so when things get difficult in the pressent. But if your not careful it will cause you more heartache to dwell in the past.
Wake up now and look at what you have. Your with this man for a reason and you love him. Remember the better times, even the kisses and cuddles and the silly moments.
Work at what you have but work at it together. Together we can achieve great things in life.
I always wonder what has gone wrong these days with marriage life and relationships. Back when my parents (their in their 70's now) were young, relationships lasted longer, and when two people swore their love for eachother it remained. All the bad and difficult times they worked through together and im sure it wasn't easy but they still got through it. These days we find that many relationships end too soon, and married life is just a five mintue wonder. Dont let you and your husband become apart of this circle.
I trust you know what im saying, and i wish you every best for your future.
And remember it's normal, just be patient, work at it together and the two most important things is TALK to eachother and tell eachother you love eachother as often as you want too.
2007-06-02 07:35:02 · answer #1 · answered by Mystic Magic 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Due to marriage is under God's house a sacrament, and a
plan of eternal blessing, that is itself a strong reminder of the
mind. This explanation that working together is right includes
the consideration of ones ambitions, planning, and ideals. With
marriage the responsible life is more possible, more positive,
and opens the door to more mature action. Those areas that
have team work in management are today in higher demand.
A reserved artist, that book that might help community, or ideas
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your fellow human are doing very well. Ask your husband if
there is an intellectual achievement, or goal that is worth the
study. Now you can enter clearer, tastier music of loves blessed.
Each day be thankful for each mature person's presence ideally
you are in a wealth of caring, and thinking it through is good.
2007-06-02 08:11:46 · answer #2 · answered by mtvtoni 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Some say its a soul mate thing, others say it is a transference of love. For example, you never stopped loving your ex and had no closure and you went on to be with your husband thus just transferring your love for your ex on to him. So really you never lost that love. I have the same problem. I have very vivid dreams and an ache to be with this person yet I think is this really what I want, would I be happy?
2007-06-02 08:04:35 · answer #3 · answered by dinkle_fritz81 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
In my humble opinion you left something that had become a comfort zone for you, and went into something that was new. It is not uncommon for people to reflect back on comfort zones, you knew what was expected, you knew what the rules were, you knew what role you played. My advice is stick with what you have, everyone hits rough spots, but it appears or FEELS like this is so much better and conducive for you to become who you really are.
2007-06-02 08:50:32 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
just remember he became your ex... If there was something real between you both youd be still together
2007-06-02 13:38:46 · answer #5 · answered by ‡ЭЭЭ‡ 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well maybe you are looking for a way out rather then trying to fix that which is broken.................................................... Also you did not leave your past that far behind............................................................................................
2007-06-02 07:14:41 · answer #6 · answered by kilroymaster 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋