ok, one time, she invited me over to her house but i couldn't go. therefore, she asked this other girl who can't stand me. now my "friend" keeps avoiding me, she wont talk to me unless we are alone and not in front of anybody. the worst part is that she wont even tell me what i did or anything. i tried to talk to her and let her know that she hurt my feelings but she just laughed. now whenever im with my other friends, she tries to get them to drop me and come with her. one day i asked her if just for one second if she thought the world revolved around something other than her and she said no. she also talks bad about me and my friends. i dont want her as a bff again but i want a way to put her place and let her suffer in pain for a while. but not in a way she did to me all the time. HELP!
2007-06-02 06:32:28 · 8 answers · asked by Janine 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
the only reason she keeps me around is so that she can pass all of our classes, which she just happened to get a schedule change so the we all of the same classes expecpt one that is switched. she said that i have to give her answers or she will let everybody read my diary. im afrad that if i stop being "friends" she will tell all the popular ppl read it.
2007-06-02 07:02:53 · update #1
Yes, you shouldn't "get back at her". You can tell her that you thought your friendship meant more to her than to be mean to you and talk about you behind your back. Don't stoop to her level and do the same thing.
Your true friends will stay true to you. If she can't even sit down as a mature young girl to discuss things, she is not worth your time or your thoughts. I would tell her that if she cannot be honest you don't want to be her friend as friends stick together. Obviously she is not your friend. I would ask her to stop talking about others behind their backs. Someday, it will come back to her and she will not like it. What goes around, comes around.
You will have good friends. The others are either just friends, or acquaintances. Your family is different and they will always love you no matter what. They can be your best friends.
Don't succomb to her blackmail. I would talk to the Dean of students. Stick to your guns. Don't let her tell you things that she probably won't follow through with. She is not a friend if she is devious and coniving. I would tell her to go fly a kite.
2007-06-02 07:03:20 · answer #1 · answered by Stephanie F 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Even if you do get revenge on her you'll not feel better about the situation. It's best if you just be more adult about the situation and if she doesnt want to be around you then don't have anything more to do with her. If you're not giving her any attention any more she may come to her senses and see what a good friend she's lost. Then its your decision whether to be friends again but it sounds like she's either easily led by this other girl or scared of her.
2007-06-02 13:56:23 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Look girl, you are better than that. Have you thought that she has issues bigger than giving you a hard time. There is definitely something serious going on in this girls life that needs to be resolved. She is going through something and only knows how to deal with it by making others feel just as bad as she does inside. Don't add to her problems trying to get back at her or waist your valuable time. Ignore her and try to get on with your life. Life is too short to focus on hurting someone. I was taught that if you can not help a person, that you don't hurt them. Don't become her and stop feeding into her negativity. I am sure you have other things to do rather than focusing on her and her missions of distruction.
2007-06-02 13:46:44 · answer #3 · answered by flirty30 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Get your grip gal,don`t let any friend of your`s take control of your life and twist you to her satisfaction. I am telling you you are better off without her,that`s why GOD made so many of us for you to choose from.
2007-06-02 13:45:50 · answer #4 · answered by jidda82 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well your friends acting like a idiot.And i wouldn`t call her a friend anymore.She sounds like a real b****&& backstabber.My advice is there`s more people in the world.Move on
2007-06-02 13:40:45 · answer #5 · answered by tatyanns 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you have done wrong to her accidentally. If so, you should say sorry to her, though you feel like you don't hurt her.
Well, forgiveness will heal the pain in her heart. I believe it.
2007-06-02 13:40:03 · answer #6 · answered by Bram 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
revenge doesnt taste too sweet. be mature about it and address the situation.
2007-06-02 13:36:45 · answer #7 · answered by Kisha B 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
well the greatest pain you can give her is fiscal
2007-06-02 13:37:14 · answer #8 · answered by Bootylicious 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋