2007-06-02 04:23:07 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
i'm guessing when you were in the mood, you were young
now your not, and when your older your more mature
its natural don't worry bout it
2007-06-02 04:25:43 · answer #1 · answered by M 4 · 0⤊ 2⤋
We need more information. Is he still willing to please you? Are you self-conscious about your appearance? Have you gotten overly comfortable in the relationship with no fear of him looking elsewhere, usually a good thing but not when you don't fulfill your mate.
You need some romance in your life, even if you have to create it yourself. Be sure to tell him what you DO want. Have the 2 of you ceased to FLIRT? Turn on your favorite ballads, dim the lights, light candles, bathe right before bed and sleep in something silky. It will help you get in the mood. Maybe also rent 9 1/2 weeks, too or a sexy movie that doesn't offend or demoralize you.
It could also be hormones, though. Do some research. Its good you have noticed and are owning up to it. Godspeed to you. Peace.
2007-06-02 11:29:05 · answer #2 · answered by Sleek 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This could be related to other things that are going on in your life. Do you have a high stress job? Do you have small children that you take care of on a daily basis? Have you had to deal with a major life change recently (lost a job, death of a loved one, etc.) Try planning a night or weekend just for the two of you. If none of these things apply to you then make an appointment with your physician or ob and have your hormone levels checked.
2007-06-02 11:43:13 · answer #3 · answered by pocahontas80_1999 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Could be a hormone change...could be you two have allowed your sex life to fall into a rut and it's just not appealing to you anymore...could be stress...could be medication...could be something you're annoyed about with re: to your husband and it's manifesting as lack of sexual desire...
Get checked out medically and make sure everything is functioning properly and your hormone levels are right...if that's all okay, then start looking for psychological issues...perhaps even try counseling if you two can't get things back on track on your own.
2007-06-02 11:27:35 · answer #4 · answered by . 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think it's completely normal to go through these periods in life, and they do not mean divorce is immanent or that you no longer love him. It's just part of the roller coaster ride we call marriage.
I know a lot of people do not like Dr. Laura, but her book "The Proper Feeding and Care of Husbands" may help you out. I know the title of the book sounds obnoxious and you may be thinking "Who says I want to take care of my husband...." but the book has tons of useful info for helping to bring the spark back in marriage.
2007-06-02 11:31:37 · answer #5 · answered by Leslie 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you are overly stressed....this could be it. Also, if your husband does not touch you other than to initiate sex, this could be it. You may be subconciously anticipating this, and may feel resentful that he does not touch you other than at times when he needs his needs met. Ask him to be more affectionate with you during the day. Touch you more during daily activities that do not involve sex. ( Rub your shoulders while you wash dishes for a minute, pat your backside when you walk by, rub your arm while you watch tv.) I have found that this builds anticipation that I am not even aware of at the time. Women are not lawnmowers.....we need to be warmed up for sex more slowly...This helped my relationship. i hope it helps your. Good luck.
2007-06-02 11:29:34 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's like buying a new car. You work at keeping it clean and in good condition and really enjoy it, or you don't pay much attention and before long it is dirty and not very dependable and you no longer enjoy it.
It is a law of nature. That which has no support system will die.
2007-06-02 11:30:22 · answer #7 · answered by stedyedy 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would have to say that maybe there is other areas in your relationship that dont make u happy either as a result this is bound to happen. U need to rekindle your relationship do some exciting things in your life together.
2007-06-03 01:56:27 · answer #8 · answered by wildpalomino 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Marriage is about sacrafice. He must be just in a peachy mood having to deal with a WIFE that won't be intimate.
It wouldn't surprise me if he went looking for it from someone else and guess what....he's justified in doing that.
2007-06-02 11:31:32 · answer #9 · answered by ark 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Divorce?
2007-06-02 11:26:23 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
how about spicing up your relationship... did you discuss this with your husband... sometimes routines are a killer.... try and discuss what fantasy you would like to get done... prepare it together... don't forget... sharing is what mariage is all about..
2007-06-02 11:28:57 · answer #11 · answered by Max C 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋