I see him every 3 years. He is gorgeous like Shane West. In fact, he looks very much like him. Whenever I see him, I wish that he was my boyfriend, but that we were never related. He is sensitive, smart, handsome, understanding, modest. I love him. Whenever he comes anywhere near me or his hand happens to touch my hand, I get a chill down my back. I feel sick to my stomach knowing that he has a girlfriend or that I won't see him again. My ideal boyfriend would have his qualities. I feel lonely.
I wish my feeling for him never existed.
Now I'm 21.
2007-06-02 03:08:20 · 8 answers · asked by marrisa c 1 in Entertainment & Music ➔ Polls & Surveys
I would never do anything of course, but I always imagine what our life would be like together. They are emotions I have trouble controlling. It is what it is.
2007-06-02 03:15:01 · update #1
Oh, by the way, we have nothing in common. loool
2007-06-02 03:16:05 · update #2
Don't you think it's time to get over your cousin?
If you would start to socialize with other guys a little bit more your developed crush on your cousin will fade away. So, go out and frolic.
2007-06-02 04:00:38 · answer #1 · answered by ★Banäna . Nightmärẹ★™ 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Go for it. Even if you're first cousins the chance that your kids will be messed up are low. You can mention this statistic to him nonchalantly if you want. Actually I'm not sure but that's what I heard. Good luck to you 2 in your lives together.
(edit) Oh wait, maybe not, I did some research. It sounds like its banned in 30 of 50 states. You don't perchance live in Alabama do you? http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Cousin_couple
2007-06-02 03:16:35 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's normal to have a crush on a cousin when you're 3-4, but when you become a teenager, it's a little disturbing.
2007-06-02 03:13:37 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I've got some drop-dead gorgeous male cousins, but I never felt the way you do about yours.
It's frustrating when you're related and can't do anything about your feelings.
2007-06-02 03:13:09 · answer #4 · answered by kitten lover3 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You just can't. It would be like if a step parent found a grown stepdaughter attractive. Yes, it may be a fact, but you just don't go there. There are just too many ISSUES that deal with family and stuff that are there and will never resolve. BAD CHOICE!!!!
2007-06-02 03:12:56 · answer #5 · answered by tiva 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, I can't relate. My female cousin is rather hairy and I've never felt the slightest attraction to her.
2007-06-02 03:15:13 · answer #6 · answered by Hero and grunt 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Elope with him and if anyone frowns at it, just run to Pakistani. There, it's very normal for first cousins to marry.
2007-06-02 03:14:58 · answer #7 · answered by Leof 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
DON'T DO ANYTHING YOU MIGHT REGRET!!
2007-06-02 03:15:04 · answer #8 · answered by LinLin 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋