if your man has one nights stands but also treat you really well, as he is allways ther for you when you need him and he gives you enogh love
2007-06-02 02:58:33 · 31 answers · asked by mini w 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
Nope, I have three kids, when he has passed on something like AIDS to me who is going to care for them!!
2007-06-02 03:01:40 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
Never in a million years would I stay with a man like that. Its not love, he is not there, or treats you well if he does that. He is belittling you as his partner and disrespecting you as a human. Never mind the risks of passing onto his partner STI's or STD's. It makes me sick to think that someone could treat their partner in such a terrible way.
There are men out there who do treat their partners really well, and are always there for them, without sleeping with someone else. why would women scrape the bottom of the barrel to stay with a "Man " (and I use the word "man" loosely) who has no idea of the real meaning of love?
2007-06-02 03:51:40 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Absolutly not.......i would not entertain staying with any man if he was even unfaithful for one night. by virtue of the fact that he is being unfaithful, means that he is NOT putting you first and making you number 1. If you were number one in his life, he would not even consider looking elsewhere for "love". if you are happy to be SECOND best then stay as you are, if not then give him an ultimatum or move on. this man of yours is not considering your feelings, and in any event how can you trust someone who could do this to you. Dont accept these low standards from any man.....your self esteem will suffer.
2007-06-02 03:07:37 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
it might work for some people but i couldn't live like that. if he really thought you were number 1 then why feel the need to have one night stands with other women? if you honestly think you could do that without letting it bother you then go ahead but be careful.
2007-06-02 04:11:17 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
As a bloke I would not put up with it if a woman did that to me so why should you? As the old saying goes "there are plenty more fish in the sea".
Not a recommended tactic but you could try having a fling yourself and see what your bloke thinks of that. But as I say not the best thing to do, personally I recommend you just dump him.
2007-06-05 23:59:41 · answer #5 · answered by Jim 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Personally...I would not stay. I am sorry to say this but if he can have these one night stands then you are not really number one in his life no matter how good he treats you otherwise.
2007-06-02 13:57:12 · answer #6 · answered by susie 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No. If you were truly number one then he wouldn't have anyone else. I would maybe be friends with someone like that but would never stay in a relationship with him. He just wants to have his cake and eat it - knows he has the security of you, who will always be there, but gets to sleep around too.
2007-06-02 03:04:26 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
No! I'm obviously not number one if he also has one night stands. Plus, if he has one night stands, he's not treating me well as he is deceiving me, he's not always there for me when I need him if he is swanning off for his one night stands and he's not giving me enough love if he has enough for all his one night stands too. There is no respect there.
2007-06-02 03:11:40 · answer #8 · answered by flutterby 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
No way. If the guy is totally into you, why would he settle for a number of meaningless flings? :) If he gets into one-night stands, then he's not for keeps. That's for sure.
2007-06-02 03:13:46 · answer #9 · answered by pink-a-boo 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I wouldn't, but then I'm not you!
If you are comfortable with the situation then why not stay? If you like going out and having one nighters as well, then fine.
If you are going to stay, just make sure that he ALWAYS uses condoms - that way you'll be safer from std's - but he should also get himself checked out regularly, just to be sure!
2007-06-02 03:05:32 · answer #10 · answered by h s 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
No, I would not stay with him because he is not putting you first! What a **** he is, and imagine if he brought home some horrible disease and passed it onto you? He is not putting you first and treating you well, he is simply using you and I cannot believe you are letting him walk all over you!
2007-06-02 03:38:48 · answer #11 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋