What am I doing wrong? I feel I am loosing my husband of 14 years. He is not talking and come home only to change his cloths, he is avoiding any contacts, and now is gone in unknown direction. We have 2 kids, 11 and 9 y.o. and I don’t want them to feel that we have problems. My husband is a really easy-going person overall. he has lots of interests and trying to enjoy his life. Home routine is not his strong side. So sometime he gets over my limits (I am really patient), and when I am telling this to him, he runs away and got really upset/pissed. Last time he started to discuss very personal things in public, I felt humiliated and told him later. We were arguing and he run away. It’s been a week already. I thought I have to be firm by setting some limits (I was really uncomfortable that time) But it’s been a week already and I am in panic. Usually I am the person who is looking for resolution of the conflict no matter who was wrong. But now he is not giving this chance to me.
2007-06-01 23:34:37 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Your not doing anything wrong. He is by not being the husband he vowed to be 14 years ago. If he can't handle a regular home life then he doesn't need to be there at all. You need someone who is going to be there when needed at all times. If he doesn't want to be a husband and would rather run each time something gets difficult then honey you need to move on because it looks like he will never change. He has children and needs to grow up.
2007-06-02 05:27:15 · answer #1 · answered by Krinta 7 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Get into a good bible based church which usually have free marriage counciling, or hire a Private investigator cause it sounds typical.
2007-06-01 23:41:38 · answer #2 · answered by arcangel2271 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It sounds like you need to look for someone who will give you the attention you need..or you can try counseling but i find that really never helps...been there done that...if he won't talk to you don't talk to him and maybe he'll come around...good luck either way!!!!!
2007-06-01 23:40:42 · answer #3 · answered by triple duece 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if you don't wish to be treated like you should.what gives you the right to let your kids get hurt by you staying and wishing the best?when will you learn that it never works.
2007-06-01 23:48:42 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋