well i was going to leave my husband because he was physically hurtung and stuff and well now im lactatting ands that mean im preganant right? well now i can't leave him and we were using condoms, what the hell do i do?
2007-06-01 20:27:38 · 17 answers · asked by ARCE 1 in Health ➔ Women's Health
lots of woman are single-mothers! don't be afraid to offer to you unborn child a home full of love and peace! instead of a dangerous father choose to be a single loving mother! and don't think to give up on your baby!he/she is a gift from God! may be the best replace for your abusive husband!you lose some you win some!
2007-06-01 20:37:53 · answer #1 · answered by gaby 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Lactation does not always mean pregnancy. It can be caused by many things:
If you are not pregnant and notice any milky discharge from your nipples, it indicates a production of prolactin and may signify a tumor ini the anterior pituitary gland. This can be diagnosed with imaging studies.
Are you on meds? Some medicine may make you lactate. Lots of drugs, including Depo-provera, may occasionally lead to a milky discharge from the nipple. The technical name for this phenomenon is galactorrhoea.Very rarely, there might be stimulation of the breast tissue by over-activity of the pituitary gland, the adrenal glands or the thyroid.
It can just be a hormonal imbalance.
2007-06-01 20:35:07 · answer #2 · answered by Big Sam 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Lactating does not guarantee pregnancy. And if you are in a situation with domestic abuse you MUST leave. Your husband may injure the fetus as well as you. Have your pregnancy confirmed by a physician. Seek help from a local women's shelter for abused women. Call them for help immediately. They can help you plan how to get out safely.
2007-06-01 20:36:50 · answer #3 · answered by Jeanne B 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Take a pregnancy test to find out if you are pregnant. If your husband is hurting you, you need to leave him. It doesn't matter if you are pregnant or not, you should never stay with a man who hurts you. Period. There are shelters that can help you if you don't have any family close by that you can stay with.
2007-06-01 20:32:39 · answer #4 · answered by Danny's Mommy 9/10/09 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You can still leave him, pregnancy doesn't change the fact that he is violent.
In fact, the history of violence demands that you leave and protect your baby.
If you need help, go to a women's shelter and they can help find you the resources you need to get out with everything you'll need for yourself and baby.
I know the timing of this baby could be better, but the love will be worth the extra work, trust me.
GL and Congratulations.
2007-06-01 20:33:01 · answer #5 · answered by alisongiggles 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Take a pregnancy test first! Condoms aren't 100% effective. If you're not pregnant, then leave the guy. If you ARE pregnant then still leave him because he will most likely be abusive to your poor innocent baby too!!!
2007-06-01 20:30:36 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
If you havent done a pregnacy test through your doctor you wont know for sure if you are pregnant or not.
Secondly, if your husband is harming you, you need to leave to a womans shelter and get help... now.
2007-06-01 20:30:47 · answer #7 · answered by Paramedic Girl 7 · 3⤊ 0⤋
as long as rhe men is physically abusive its best you reconsider your long term options . Are you sure you want to be pregnant with his child ?
go see a doctor then to make a police report ref your abusive husband !
2007-06-01 20:31:05 · answer #8 · answered by aunt_webby 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First you should try taking a pregnancy test.
But whatever the outcome, you should never be w/ anyone that is physically hurting you.
2007-06-01 20:30:58 · answer #9 · answered by Lyndsey G 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Go to the doctor and check if you are really pregnant first.
If you are going to leave your husband but you are really pregnant(after going to the doctor), you can:
1. give up your child for adoption
2. let your husband take care of the child(but you won't agree)
3. take care of the child, yourself.
Don't go for abortion, never.
2007-06-01 20:35:30 · answer #10 · answered by Adrian 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋