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A guy I work with. (really it is not me) said his wife is getting fat. She has no health problems just likes to eat! How do you tell someone you love they are putting on the pounds? He does love, and care for his wife.

2007-06-01 16:19:04 · 6 answers · asked by John M 2 in Health Women's Health

6 answers

Instead of telling her and making her feel bad, he should just try to be more active with her. Ask her to go for a walk with him after dinner. Or he can do the ultimate I love you trick as long as he never tells. He can tell her that he wants to get in better shape and stay healthy, and tell her that it would really help him if she would exercise with him.

2007-06-02 04:53:13 · answer #1 · answered by ? 6 · 0 0

Perhaps have him talk to her about HIM wanting to work out.

Make it as though he wants company to work out with and that it would benefit her as well. If she doesn't have much energy, say that working out will help bring back her energy and they can do it as a couple.

Or...

Get both of their cholesterol and glucose checked. If one or both are high, you have the best excuse to start eating right and working out!

If he goes grocery shopping with her, start looking at the nutrition panels (this really DOES help) and put back any that are really nasty. My fiance and I started doing this and oh boy we were shocked at how much cholesterol was in some foods as well as sodium content!!!

2007-06-01 23:36:54 · answer #2 · answered by Terri 7 · 0 0

if he's uncomfortable in telling her, offer to do the groceries every time and buy thing that are very healthy
but don't get stuff like slim-fast
unless u want to hint her

2007-06-01 23:24:09 · answer #3 · answered by unknown 2 · 1 0

You need to be honest... Tell her she is getting fat. She will like your honesty, Women like an honest man. Offer to let her join a gym.

2007-06-01 23:30:18 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0 2

Have him start dieting, the best way is to lead by example. If necessary, have him talk to her about it.

2007-06-01 23:28:10 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1 0

say lets go on a diat together

2007-06-01 23:51:45 · answer #6 · answered by Caitlin C 2 · 1 0

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