I am a 19 year old male, recently I visted my Uncles house. My family goes to visit his family once in a while and we hang out. I have always known my cousin Sara( She's 18), I was never really close to her, but we would talk sometimes. Well I haven't seen her in a while, but when I did, it wasn't the same. She turned gorgeous. When we met that day I was a nervous breakdown, she would just stare and smile. Well we talked about our lives and such, and other things. Well during the week's stay we really connected, we started hanging out( and flirting). She would do alot of un-family like touching, but yet I did not want her to sto I couldn't te I couldn't get my mind off her, she was just so... intoxicating, I can't explain it. 2 days before we leave, when we were alone she says stop playing games and startes kissing me. I wanted to stop, but I couldn't.. ...and it went from there. She says she loves me, and I love her to. She says she always has a had a crush on me.
2007-06-01 15:31:42 · 27 answers · asked by buggy555 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
Part of me thinks I have done soemthing horribly wrong, and that I have betrayed my Uncle. I realize that she is my 1st cousin, and it is incest. sometimes I think that have done something perverted and twisted. But I still have conflicting emotion's. I am in love with her, I wish I can take away my feeling but I can't. There just their. She is my close relative, what should I do it. I have talked to her about my feelings, and she says that our love is stronger then anything. But part of me is stil saying no. What do you think?
2007-06-01 15:36:52 · update #1
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2007-06-01 15:58:29 · update #2
It is just plain wrong and I think you already know it! You shouldn't let it go on any more!
2007-06-01 15:47:53 · answer #1 · answered by sheila g 2 · 1⤊ 1⤋
I think this is illegal in most states. If it is not in yours, it's still darn disgusting. Your first cousin is a blood relative; therefore, a relationship with her is incest. Nasty! You both need to get over this. Get some counseling, or don't see each other again until you get a hold of yourself. What this would do to your family. Eccch.
2007-06-01 22:36:31 · answer #2 · answered by julz 7 · 2⤊ 1⤋
You sound sprung over your cousin,but I don't think the rest of your family would be to enthusiastic about it.Frankly I'm not either,but it doesn't matter what think. I think that should have never happened.I think you are going to have a lot of problems.
2007-06-01 22:47:27 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
Check out this web site. Cousin relationships are common. People like to think it isn't, but it is. It is also completely legal.
"No European country prohibits marriage between first cousins. It is also legal throughout Canada and Mexico to marry your cousin. The U.S. is the only western country with cousin marriage restrictions."
"26 states allow first cousin marriages; most people can marry their cousin in the US."
"Leviticus 18 lists all forbidden sexual relationships. Cousin relationships are not included."
2007-06-01 22:41:56 · answer #4 · answered by Poppet 7 · 0⤊ 2⤋
I would give it time, but I have cousins in my family that are married to each other for years & have healthy children & happy homes & my grandparents were 2nd cousins & they lived happily ever after until they died. She was 96 & he was 107 when they each died. But take it slow and see wher it goes. And stay active in seeing other people. Do not limit yourself. After all it could just be pure physical attraction & nothing more.
2007-06-01 22:39:15 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 2⤋
Pretty sure you have to avoid that again! Not enough chlorine in the gene pool, if you know what I mean! Also, check out the laws in your state, most don't allow any relationship closer than 2nd cousins...
2007-06-01 22:36:15 · answer #6 · answered by JQ 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
it is a little weird in a way but you both do not spend time like cousins usually do. i think that it is fine how you both feel. i just wish ya'll the best of luck. just remember that this is ya'll feelings not anyone esle's. do what you think is right!
2007-06-01 22:53:53 · answer #7 · answered by lc 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I suggest you just brush-off whatever feelings you have for her because it is not allowed and not healthy. I'm sure you can find another girl, you're only 19, you have a whole life ahead of you. Do not waste your life and that of your cousin's.
2007-06-01 22:42:22 · answer #8 · answered by July Girl 2 · 2⤊ 1⤋
Are you in Arkansas or Alabama? Either one of those states.
But to be honest with you, I had a crush on my cousin but I knew it wasn't right so just stay away unless you want ugly children with f'ed up eyes and facial features that could get a shot of staring in a X-man movie.
2007-06-01 22:38:27 · answer #9 · answered by Magicman 4 · 1⤊ 3⤋
are you serious?? she is your cuzin!! what the hell were thinkin, yeah you love her. but in a family type of way make sure you dont get them confused. she is family but i mean if you want your kids to have the same aunts and uncles!! and gradparents be aunt and uncles at the same time then go ahead, but thats just sick. man have respect for yourself and your family!UR RELATED!
2007-06-01 22:41:39 · answer #10 · answered by *Gelli* 3 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Your Uncle is going to be P*SSED.
Your whole Family is going to be.
You knew it was wrong before things
even started.
2007-06-01 22:49:04 · answer #11 · answered by elliebear 7 · 1⤊ 1⤋