Leave him, don't waste your time with him. that is a guys mentality is to "have fun". I made the mistake and I lost someone I should have settled with. When he sees that you have moved on with someone who is serious then he will regret it. The you can look back and laugh and say "You had your chance'. It sounds harsh but don't put your life on hold who wont do the same for you.
2007-06-01 15:13:54
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answered by AAA 3
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How old are you guys? If he is committed to you and just isn't ready for family life then wait for him. Part of being in a relationship is respecting each other's needs and moving forward together when both people are ready. If he is not committed to you and still wants to date other people then let him. The last thing you want to do is force him or put any demands on him, if you are patient with him and respect his needs he will love you more for it in the future. If you leave him or push him to get married before he is ready just so he doesn't lose you he will resent you for it probably forever in some small way. You have to love him for what and who he is today, not for what and who you want him to be in the future.
2007-06-01 22:34:02
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answered by 000000 2
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Move on with your life. your boyfriend has been very honest and upfront with you about how he feels regarding settling down and having kids. Don't get your hopes up or feel that if you stay with your boyfriend he may change his mind later on. People do not change unless they are ready to change and your boyfriend is clearly not ready to change. Find someone that is on the same level as you. Don't be miserable, find someone that you can be happy with and start that family that you want. There is nothing wrong with what you want but you also have to respect what your boyfriend wants. Let him go and move on, it will be the best thing that you could do for yourself.
2007-06-01 22:17:08
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answered by debbie_75052 4
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Yes you should move on. You have only invested a year and 6 months. when you think about it that is not a long time. You and he do not shair the same out look for the relationship so whats the point?
Just keep hanging out until you find someone that is looking for the same things you are.
what ever you do don't try to trap or force anything on he, it will end badly.
2007-06-01 22:23:59
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answered by val 2
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He's not going to settle down until he's ready. You don't want to force him. I don't know how old you two are, but maybe he's just too young right now. Who's idea is it for you to move in? If you push him, he'll end up resenting you.
2007-06-01 22:15:19
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answered by Sue S 2
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old habits tend to come and go...even when he feels he is ready...he just might decide later he wants to party some more...and then its really going to be a problem...I think you need to seriously think twice about having a future with this guy.
2007-06-01 22:23:34
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answered by Goodspeed 6
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Let him play. If he loves you he will come back when the time is right. If not you saved yourself from a lot of trouble.
2007-06-01 22:17:01
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answered by Anonymous
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If you love something let it go and if it comes back to you its was meant to be yours. Maybe you should wait a see but don't wait to long .
-Good luck :)
2007-06-01 22:20:36
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answered by Kelly j 3
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if you love him and are willing to wait, then wait
dont just jump and do one thing or the other
THINK- or you WILL regret it
2007-06-01 22:16:49
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answered by bronzebabekentucky 7
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move on, otherwise what is the point?
2007-06-01 22:30:16
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answered by SEG48 3
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