I had sex with my friend on April 20th. I got my period during the first week of April and I haven't gotten it since then. And it is now June. My period usually comes around the last/first week of every month and is hardly ever late. I missed it last month and haven't gotten it yet this month.
When we had sex we used a condom and he pulled out. Is there still a chance that I could've gotten pregnant...maybe after he took the condom off or something? I know it's probably a slim chance but is it still possible? how likely is it that i got pregnant from it?
if i haven't gotten my period in the next two weeks i plan on taking a home test. Should I tell my friend? He still doesn't know anything about this. should i tell him now or wait until i am ready to take the test or after or not at all?
him and i are really good friends and get along great but we are not in a relationship. is it being unfair to him not to tell him now?
2007-06-01 14:49:18 · 12 answers · asked by Mhmm. 2 in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Pregnancy
I know that it might worry him if i say something but I'm only 17 and I really don't want to do this alone. I'd like him to be there for it one way or another.
We've only had sex together once and i haven't had sex with anyone besides him since.
2007-06-01 14:58:16 · update #1
i would say tell him that there could be that chance. buy the test and be with him when u take the test.
i honestly hope ur not since ur only 17 but most likely u r. specially if like u say ur periods r pretty regular.
2007-06-01 15:04:48 · answer #1 · answered by IG 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Having sex = possible pregnancy.
Your methods seem to be pretty effective, so your chances are very, very slim...but, it's always possible.
Wait until you take a test and know for sure before you tell him. Try to relax...stress can mess up your cycle. If April 20th was the last time you had sex, it's probably been enough time to at least try a test now and see what it says. If it's negative you can go to the Doctor's and have them give you a test that is usually more accurate. And in 2 weeks if you still don't have your period, take another test and/or go to the doctor's again. The doctor should at least be able to help you find out why your period is messed up if it's not due to a pregnancy.
2007-06-01 22:03:41 · answer #2 · answered by NatalieLaine412 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ok, take the test now, you should get an accurate reading since you had sex that long ago, theres really no need to tell him yet, why worry him over negative pregnancy test. I say take the test and if you get a positive, call him up and find a time to sit down and talk to him about this, but just wait until your for sure about the results and yes there is a possible chance you could be condoms are not 100% effective and from what my doctor has told me around (statistically)80% of men put condoms on wrong and bc of that they really are only around 85% effective in those cases, but used correctly around 99% effective take the test before worrying too much
2007-06-01 21:54:14 · answer #3 · answered by renata 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
don't tell him until you know something one way or another. it could be stress, amenorria or something else causing the delay. Just because you never had a late period doesn't mean you couldn't have one now. Men will tend to worry about things severely. You're probably not pregnant from what you're saying. Wait two weeks, take your home test, then see your doctor either way if you haven't received it.
Good Luck.
2007-06-01 21:53:57 · answer #4 · answered by JaneDo 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
There's a possibility that you might be pregnant. Have the test first before you tell your friend about it. At least, when you tell him you're 100% certain that you are, no false alarms. Then the two of you can have a serious talk on what to do. It is not fair to him, if things turn out positive, that you'll keep it a secret from him just as it isn't fair to you to keep the secret to yourself. I think both of you are matured enough to take full responsibility of your action although you did try to protect yourself.
2007-06-01 21:59:28 · answer #5 · answered by annabelle p 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Though call..I think I'd wait to know for sure after taking a test...Just if u r really good friends and u tell him he may freak out..even if u end up not, then it may hurt ur friendship...Just do what u think is best, but I personnaly would make sure first just to save the stress of the unknown....If you need to talk to someone confide in a good friend, parent, minister, or someone u trust who u can get things off ur chest with....I doubt u r, but it is a chance..very slim though
Good Luck!
2007-06-01 21:58:49 · answer #6 · answered by rhoda 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It is possible that you are pregnant, though highly unlikely. Don't say anything to your friend until you know. There is no reason to upset him, freak him out, and possibly lose your friendship. You can take a pregnancy test now and get an accurate result. Go get a test to put your mind at peace.
2007-06-01 21:57:49 · answer #7 · answered by Surf Forever 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If your period is already late, you don't need to wait two weeks. You can take a test now. When you get the results, tell the father. Even if you're NOT pregnant tell him, so he'll know that you two need to be extra careful.
2007-06-01 21:54:19 · answer #8 · answered by Kelsey H 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Honey I would go get a pregnancy test asap! Or call and make an appointment with your gynecologist. I wouldn't say anything to your male friend until you know for sure and all your options are in front of you. Good luck
2007-06-01 21:56:28 · answer #9 · answered by JillardG 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Why bother saying anything unless you know you are pregant? What good will it do? I say wait until then.
If you test now you should get an accurate result since you had sex so long ago.
2007-06-01 21:53:06 · answer #10 · answered by sharkyincanada 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋