it's an accident (forgot to take pills )
women feel empty inside
women are not financially ready to have kids but yet they do
is today trends and is accepted...
even if is not the child best interest?
women have the right to do so..even if it's the baby that pays the price?
because women can claim ignorance?
because women don't like to take responsibility?
because women want babies?
2007-06-01 12:43:08 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Pregnancy
NO - to all of the above. Babies should never be used to fill a void! Remember - all the "trendiness" about having a baby comes from the celebrity world - they can afford it!
2007-06-01 12:48:45 · answer #1 · answered by ShellyC 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
To have babies for any reason other than wanting one to cherish and love isn't acceptable. Accidents do happen like forgetting to take your pills but there are so many new birth control devices that women aren't using the pill as much. And if I may also add that WOMEN do not make babies by themselves. MEN have to contribute. Therefore the responsibilty of bring a child into this world is split between both people. I was a single mom before I met my fiancee, I didn't have a choice. My son's father is no good and in prison. Many women like myself do not choose financial or emotional hardship we are cursed to it. However even though the odds are stacked against us we still manage to raise beautiful, productive children that we can be proud of.
2007-06-01 19:52:09 · answer #2 · answered by LiLy 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Why are you just blaming it on a woman? some women don't even want kids and fall pregnant. Maybe because the guy didn't have the guts to get a condom and thought the girl was on BC and didn't bother to ask..{a.k.a carelessness!} A guy has every opportunity a woman does to prevent pregnancy as a woman does. Just because shes on bc doesnt mean you shouldnt use a rubber. If every woman went out and aborted a child just because she wasnt ready or wanted to wait til shes ready they're would never be anymore of the population.
2007-06-01 19:49:33 · answer #3 · answered by cutenwild1769 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
There is no good reason to have a baby unless you are wealthy enough to support the child for 18 years with ease, all of the above reasons are horrible reasons to have a baby. Notice women get mighty defensive when we place some interesting questions on thier having children when they are not ready, on many levels, to have a child.
Lets not forget that if you have an accidental pregnancy there are medical ways to deal with it for minimal cost, to fix your mistake ! If you are a bible thumper and think thats just horrible, then put the baby up for adoption. The parents of adopted children are pre-screened to make sure they CAN take of a child.
2007-06-01 19:57:22 · answer #4 · answered by Travis S 2 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Lots of women like to have babies; some are irresponsible, just like men; everyone can claim ignorance...
The WHY is not important; having a baby IS IMPORTANT and to give that child the best life possible.
2007-06-01 19:49:10 · answer #5 · answered by Nothingusefullearnedinschool 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Becoming pregnant under MOST of those circumstances is irresponsible. However....once you are pregnant I feel that you are pregnant! That's it, the baby is coming and deserves the chance at the life that the mother AND FATHER already gave it. It is only further irresponsibility to make excuses to "get rid of it" or "make it go away".
2007-06-01 19:47:19 · answer #6 · answered by Betsy 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Neither.
It's good to have babies when your are in a lawful and healthy marriage, because this is the main reason to be married.
2007-06-01 19:51:43 · answer #7 · answered by Kalistrat 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋