my friend is out of control! please help!?

Question

my friend is so mean to me and my best friend. we dont want to be her friend anymore for our own good because

1)she has no consious and doesnt feel bad about anything she does or doesnt see anything wrong when she hurts someones feelings and thinks it is no big deal.

2.) she makes fun of people in our grade for no reason, and other kids and is really rude and mean to then and likes to start fights with people and call people names.

3.) when she does something dumb that will get her in trouble she gets us in trouble and it looks like we did it too when we did nothing and she gets us in trouble.

4) she puts us down alot and makes fun of us and tells guys we are losers.

you are probally wondering why we are still her friend right? well we can not get rid of her! we told her the way we feel but she doesnt care. and she is in our class and always wants to talk to us and come over to her house to hang out. we can not get her away from us.

we are also going into high school this fall and want to stay away from her but how can i if she is in one of my classes and she is the only one i know and sits by me and starts talking. i really do not want to become her friend again because she will give me a bad reputation and will make no one want to be her friend because she will be around me. what do i do?

she is really crazy.

thanks for answering!

there is no sudden change she has been like this for a long time

Answer 1

"No" is a very small, easy-to-pronounce word. You can get the hang of it with practice. If you told her how you feel and she keeps butting in, hanging around, inviting herself, etc., then you have to openly, pointedly ignore her. As far as wanting you to come to her house, what does she do, drag you there by your elbows? Here's where that "just say 'no'" thing comes into play. If she sits next to you in class, move. If she talks to you, don't answer her. She will eventually get the message and move on.

Answer 2

If this is a sudden change maybe something is going on in her personal life that she does not want to talk about, and then takes it out on her friends. Try to speak to her as to why all the anger, possibly there is a hidden problem that you that you can help her with.

Answer 3

if you keep ignoring her...she will get over it.
and high school... you will get a lot of new friends.
and so will she...
so just wait...
soon enough she will be gone.