hi im an 18 year old male me and my sister still live at home with our parents, and i have a very serious problem, my sister who is the same age as me is trying to turn me in to a girl, (probably cuz she doesn't have a sister) she keeps sending me magazines of men hoping that i will get turned on. and also she sometimes gives me makeovers and dresses me up like a total ****. she told me to get a boyfriend otherwise she would set me up with one of her mates what should i do. i think im turning gay
2007-06-01 11:25:59 · 41 answers · asked by Anonymous in Society & Culture ➔ Cultures & Groups ➔ Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender
I'm sorry but you can't turn gay, you are born that way.
2007-06-01 11:28:56 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 3⤊ 2⤋
You are doing these things because you want to. I'm not saying that to be mean to you or to disrespect you. If your sister gives you makeovers and you allow it, there is a part of you that wants her to, enjoys it, and is probably considering some kind of transgendered lifestyle. That's not necessarily a good or bad thing. But it is what it is. It's a lot easier to say someone is forcing you to do this than to admit it might be something you really want to do. As someone said here, you dont just "go gay." Also, if you decide you like dressing up like a girl, that doesnt mean you ARE gay. Although it sounds as if you are at the very least thinking about it.
The important thing to remember is that whatever you decide, it should be your decision. And you need to stop blaming your sister. If you are 18 and going along with it, you are making a choice. Your sister may enjoy it for whatever reason, but the bottom line is that you do as well. Own what you feel. No reason to be ashamed if that's what you want.
2007-06-01 11:34:02 · answer #2 · answered by Toodeemo 7 · 3⤊ 0⤋
I don't think your sister can turn you into a gay person if you are not born that way. You said your sister was the same age as you, then is she your twin? Maybe she wants a twin sister so she's treating you as if you were a girl. I think if you are feeling annoyed by her pushiness, then you should say "no" to her makeovers. You could tell her firmly and politely that you have enough of this nonsense and you want to be left alone to concentrate on your studies or your own friends. Just tell her you are old enough to find someone to fall in love with and please could she leave you alone.
2007-06-01 11:32:54 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Try Dating A Boy And See If You Feel Comfortable With The Idea
2007-06-02 02:52:16 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I can only see this going one of three directions...
1. You're just a typical straight guy and just having a bit of fun with your sister and its going too far now. In which case just talk to her and say that.
2. You're in denial and really are gay. If you want a boyfriend, then just find one. Maybe your sister is just trying to get you to see what you don't want to right now.
3. You're in denial and you're transgender of some kind. Which might mean you're a crossdresser (who typically are attracted to women, though not always) or maybe transsexual (born in the opposite gender to what is normally attributed to their sex and thus change sex and can be of any sexual orientation) or maybe one of the other categories.
No matter what it is, search yourself, explore who you are without prejudice or bias, and then just be yourself because that's all you can to be.
2007-06-02 05:12:36 · answer #5 · answered by Valerie 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
being aware and conscious of it is your first step to overcome such dillema. second is try to tell yourself that you are a man. I love my self and I love being a man. Turning into gay is somehow tresspassing the natural law of nature. Being a gay is now acceptable to some countries and its good if you just act like a gay but if you are getting attracted to the person of the same sex and crave for (homosexual acts) is totally different. It is morally sinful. Just be yourself and learn to say no if you think your will is against it.
2007-06-01 11:35:30 · answer #6 · answered by bertz 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Boy, you do NOT need to let her give you makeovers or dress you up like anything whatever, unless there is force involved. If there IS force involved, report to the police, social service agencies, or someone who'll believe you. (Frankly, I'm not at all sure *I* believe you; the way this Question reads strongly suggests it's a made-up trolling device.)
2007-06-04 12:30:30 · answer #7 · answered by georgetslc 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't be stupid!!!! You can't be turned gay by your sister! Maybe she thinks you are, but it doesn't mean you are. Are you worried what people might think if you were? If you are definitely not gay, tell your sis to stop being such a **** and get a life!
2007-06-01 11:33:23 · answer #8 · answered by Pixxxie 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
No one can turn you gay you are born like that. But to me it sounds as if you like her doing that to you. Does it turn you on ? do you enjoy it? do you want to be female ? Is it possible you are a transvestite or a transexual ? do you enjoy the makeup and the dressing ? TV or TS is not gay but if you want to talk go to pauline.neild@btinternet.com
2007-06-01 13:34:26 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
don't listen to her. When she gives you magazines don't take it tell her you have car magazines etc. Why in the world will you let her do makeup on u. Tell her you don't need makeup ur a guy. You need to learn to say no. If she doesn't stop tell ur parents. I think ur sister has lost her mind.
2007-06-01 11:29:53 · answer #10 · answered by bdf s 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Are you attracted to men? If not Stop dressing up and tell her to get a friend.
My daughter is gay and trust me people do not TURN gay they are born that way. Usually it just takes quite a while for acceptance.
2007-06-01 11:29:53 · answer #11 · answered by ? 7 · 4⤊ 1⤋