& i cant tell her cuz she said she was gonna send 2 mexico
2007-06-01 10:52:02 · 20 answers · asked by joselyn 1 in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Pregnancy
I am so sorry some the people answering are being so mean! Shame on you all for scaring her and making her feel worse! Sweetie, the very first thing that you need to do is talk to someone other than your mom, such as a school counselor, someone at planned parenthood, anyone that can maybe be there with you when you tell your mom. Then you need to look at all of your options - including keeping the baby, putting it up for adoption, and yes even abortion. Your mom might be more understanding than you think, but the bottom line is you can't wait until you start showing, or go live with the father of the baby - that will only make the situation worse.
2007-06-01 11:22:20 · answer #1 · answered by ShellyC 3 · 0⤊ 2⤋
How old are you? It really depends on the age and if you're living with her. If you are living with her, which you must be then I'd tell her right away.
Depending on your age,maturity and whether you have support is dependent on what you do after that. If you're too young and have no support as far as having the baby then you could always give him/her up for adoption. There are plenty of couples out there who would want your baby if you can't raise him/her. She can't send you to Mexico as far as I know but you've obviously had a conversation with your mother about sex. Next time, if there is a next time, it'd be easier, wiser and cheaper to buy protection or not have sex at all.
2007-06-01 18:02:03 · answer #2 · answered by abmainer 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She will send you to Mexico if you are pregnant?
I guess you will just have to call her on the bluff because in a few months she will know you are pregnant just by looking at you.
Your mother might be more understanding than you think. Just try to talk to her. Be honest and tell her you know it's not the best situation but you're going to do the right thing from now on.
2007-06-01 17:56:25 · answer #3 · answered by Veritas 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Just be honest and tell her, she cannot send you away against your own will. No matter what age you are. If she sends you to Mexico and you are a US citizen you can cross right back over and be back in the US. Talk to your babys father, other family members...a school counseler, if you are really that scared to tell your mom you need to turn to another source to help u...Good luck
2007-06-01 18:00:19 · answer #4 · answered by oOoLaLaiTzSina 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
All mother would said that but they don't meant it,beleive me
tell your Mom and she will understand you. She will get upset a little bit but then she will be Ok. It's all defend on the situation anyway...if your pregnant and you didn't know where the father is I can see a different reaction from your mom but she still love you even she get mad at you. Just tell your Mom about the situation whatever happened your mom is always gonna be on your side.
2007-06-01 18:04:30 · answer #5 · answered by Dolly Baby 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hope you enjoy having a baby in Mexico. If that is what one of your moms rules are then little one, I guess that you will be learning from your mistakes.
Oh yeah, dont drink the water it will make you sick. Watch out for the scorpions because if they sting you they can kill you and the red fire ants are a b*tch to deal with.
2007-06-01 18:01:51 · answer #6 · answered by 3peas in a pod 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
tell her cause u dont wanna go to mexico pregnant just be open an real how old ru an how far? IM Me at sweetcherrykisses0069.... goodluck everything will work but do tell her
2007-06-01 17:56:12 · answer #7 · answered by Lola 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
send who to mexico?
2007-06-01 17:58:05 · answer #8 · answered by shadow 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ur gonna have to tell her soon. shes gonna find out later anyways, u might as well just tell her now.
2007-06-01 17:56:19 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Sit her down and tell her, calmly and repentantly, that you're pregnant. Tell her that you didn't mean for this to happen and that you need her advice and undying support.
Good luck, and, for your sake, don't do that again.
2007-06-01 17:58:35 · answer #10 · answered by Caiticat 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋