I kissed a girl last night and I liked it okay, but I love men better. Does this make me a lesbian?
2007-06-01 09:30:20 · 24 answers · asked by Anonymous in Society & Culture ➔ Cultures & Groups ➔ Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender
no
2007-06-01 09:33:06 · answer #1 · answered by george 2 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Just because you kissed another girl and enjoyed it, doesn't automatically make you a lesbian.
a) You could be bi, especially as you seem sure that you like men
b) It could be that it was only the physical sensation of kissing someone, not the actual person herself
c) People kiss people that they wouldn't normally kiss for all sorts of reasons other than actual attraction. Some people are just experimenting, some are drunk, sometimes its a dare, or sometimes they're just trying to get attention. None of these things automatically cause a person to be gay or lesbian. Please don't take offence, I'm not presuming that you kissed this girl for any of these reasons, they're just possibilities.
Lots of people have a one-off experience with someone of the same sex and go on to lead their lives as a straight person.
Of course, there is nothing wrong with being bi or lesbian, and you don't have to rush to label yourself right away. Take your time, work out your feelings. And above all, don't sweat it! Being straight, bi, or lesbian does not change who you are as a person.
2007-06-01 10:02:50 · answer #2 · answered by Iggy 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No honey it does not make you a lesbian and 4 the people who says it does ignore them because it just mean you were curious ur no bi ,no lesbian yea u said u liked it but okay everybody goes through there curious times shoot I was curious so bottom line...Your pretty str8 from what I can tell remember you can enjoy it but never go into it
2007-06-01 13:22:12 · answer #3 · answered by LIL T 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No... a kiss is a kiss. Even if you liked it, its not that serious to call yourself a lesbian. You still love men so you can't be a lesbian anyway.
2007-06-01 09:49:14 · answer #4 · answered by Yvette 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
It doesn't mean you're a lesbian. But then, again, I don't know you from a hole in the wall. You're basically asking if you're a lesbian, and only you can answer that. Even if you said you love men better, you're obviously unsure.
2007-06-01 09:46:02 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
No. Being a lesbian is really just a senseless lable. If you don't see yourself as one then you're not. Even if one kiss did change your sexual status it would be to bisexual before it would be gay. Who you like is who you like if you don't want a lable, don't take one.
2007-06-01 09:34:20 · answer #6 · answered by Crystal 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Yes, kisses have a magical quality to change our gender preferences forever.
That was called sarcasm. Like it?
2007-06-01 09:34:00 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
No it doesn't make you a lesbian
2007-06-01 09:33:03 · answer #8 · answered by Mulysa 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Does standing in the garage make you a car?
2007-06-01 09:45:09 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
Perhaps the kiss does not. But as you liked it, you must assume you are bisexual.
2007-06-01 09:35:46 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
you answered your own question..you like men better. so no you're not a lesbian.
you're either bi curious or had one drink too many
2007-06-01 09:43:21 · answer #11 · answered by empyre 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋