If you and your husband or BF were invited out on a house boat for the day and after about a half hour everyone was going to the top deck. and there were 12 couples there some you knew and some you didnt. And all the other women started to take there tops off and lay out. What would you do????All the men were looking at you and waiting to see if you were going to join the other women.It happened to us. just wondering what other women would do
2007-06-01 09:10:32 · 35 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
I would definitely not join them... but would give my husband or boyfriend a big wet kiss and tell him that i will show him mine later ; )
2007-06-01 09:14:14 · answer #1 · answered by Oula 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
would not take my top off, and would be really uncomfortable having my husband around those woman..I would move to a different part of the deck out of view. If my husband had a staring problem..I would threaten to join the ladies
2007-06-01 09:21:56 · answer #2 · answered by KFD 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm 39 years old and have never "flashed" any one, ever. My fiance is a breast man so I'm sure he would enjoy it but I'm not sure how I would handle it. I've been to a lot of places that promote breast exposure (bars, Harley rallies, float trips, etc..) but have never participated. I am 5' tall, 113 lb with 34D's so that's not the issue. On the other hand, I wonder if my hang-ups have kept me from having some harmless fun in my life. Approaching 40 in August, I think I just might like to get that one under my belt!!! My fiance said he wouldn't like to share but he wouldn't mind people SEEING how lucky he is!!!
2007-06-01 09:29:54 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
I would go to another part of the boat where I felt more comfortable and not make a big deal about it. Next time I was invited I would decline.
2007-06-01 09:41:37 · answer #4 · answered by Kat G 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Keep mine on definitely!!! Yes I would feel pressured to do the same thing but I would rather be true to myself and what would it prove anyway. I would like to think that the man I was with would admire the fact that I wasnt willing to strip off just for the sake of it
2007-06-01 09:32:23 · answer #5 · answered by Magster 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, honestly, it would be up to you what to do. What others think of you isn't your business. On the other hand, if everyone was doing it this means it was probably a "safe" environment for this. So I don't think you could have made the wrong choice.
By the way.... what DID you do? bornin54@yahoo.com
2007-06-01 09:17:26 · answer #6 · answered by Brent 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Thinking of your husband reminds me a little of national lampoons christmas vacation:
"Is it hooter in here or is it just me? It's definitely a little nipply outside right now..."
I'm pretty sure all the men weren't just looking at you if there were topless women around! And yes my wife would slug me right now if she were here LOL!
2007-06-01 10:03:06 · answer #7 · answered by Zaferus 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I wouln't take my top off for sure, that would be disrespectfull to my husband. Knowing us and how "we" are, we would return to the lower deck together, husband wouldn't stay for same respect reason.
2007-06-01 09:15:20 · answer #8 · answered by LISA R 1 · 3⤊ 0⤋
Just like high school and peer pressure to do drugs, have sex, whatever...
remember this old saying: if everybody else was jumping off a cliff to their deaths, would you follow?
the blind leading the blind?
I can think of so many sayings like that that fit this...
2007-06-01 09:37:03 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Take it off sister! They are just pieces of fat, after all. All women have them and each one is different. Next time if you are uncomfortable, how about telling them you have a family history of skin cancer. Just a thought.
2007-06-01 09:43:06 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋