The person I somehow was attracted to and I thought he was falling for me thought he didnt say, asked me to tutor his friend for a few days. When me & his friend set eyes on each other, there was instant attraction. We were both nervous & I tried to focus on the lesson and ignore what happened cos i thought the other one was interested in me and until I know where I stand with him. I also felt this was a test to see how committed I was to him. His friend was was trying to impress me and show off. He seemed interested in everything I had to say &he only left after my second student arrived. The second time I met him, he asked me about my age and said he was old, i thought he may be testing the water. It turned out he was 15years my senior. During the few lessons we had,we got on extremely well and he teased me everytime. He had to cancel the last lesson, I emailed him later to say pls keep in touch & he said he'd love to do more lessons soon. Not sure who is interested or what to do
2007-06-01 09:04:42 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
Libra, he did cancel cos a close relative was very ill, and I thought I should asked how they were. But I also like to keep in touch with every one I teach.
2007-06-01 09:17:25 · update #1
Beatrice B:
I think I know who I want and it is the second guy but not very sure he is interested and also feel very bad about hurting the other guy.
2007-06-01 09:20:00 · update #2
You need to communicate with both people. How can you make any good decisions if you don't even know where you stand? But communicate carefully.
2007-06-01 09:10:26 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he really was interested in you, why did YOU have to contact him after he cancelled a lesson?
Get a grip and concentrate on being a tutor not a pensioner seducer!
2007-06-01 09:10:40 · answer #2 · answered by Just me 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
2 long
2007-06-01 11:28:48 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ever tried asking any of them? I don't see why people don't just do that if their THAT torn between it. It's not gonna kill you, and if their your friend they'll understand if they say no.
2007-06-01 09:10:55 · answer #4 · answered by kaytii 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
he's too old. get someone closer to your own age
2007-06-01 09:07:55 · answer #5 · answered by luckford2004 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋