at my school theres this boy thats gay, i don't have a problem with him because of that but since hes gay hes allowed to use the girls bathroom. i once was went to the bathroom since i had my period and he was in there.. its akward knowing a guy is right there when trying to put a tampon in.. and i have friends who saw him in the girls pe locker room. when they said something to him he said, "its ok, im gay" does any one else think thats weird. (sorry if i offend any one, i wasn't trying to)
2007-06-01 08:31:09 · 12 answers · asked by ♥ashley♥ 2 in Society & Culture ➔ Cultures & Groups ➔ Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender
hes not lying about being gay.. you can tell by looking at him, by the way he walks, talks, and that all his friends are girls. hes a really nice guy and all but i still rather not have him in the same bathroom as me..
2007-06-01 08:44:54 · update #1
lol no he wasn't putting in a tampon, i was.
2007-06-01 08:46:21 · update #2
you should raise your concerns with the school nurse or guidance counselor. I am not sure the basis for them having a gay person use the opposite gender restroom. it makes absolutely no sense to me.
2007-06-01 08:40:27 · answer #1 · answered by Tegarst 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Something definetly wrong there.
Gay or not, a guy should not be allowed to use the girls bathroom or the girls PE lockers room. He may not be as gay as he says he is.
If he continues he should be reported to the school principal.
What he is doing is not proper under any circumstances (going in to what is supposed to be "girls only" areas - the being gay part is fine).
BTW - you not offending anyone.
2007-06-01 15:38:28 · answer #2 · answered by nycguy10002 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
yeah that is a bit weird. i dont really think that should be allowed, its still a girls room, but maybe its because him using the boys rooms would cause problems. i had to quit the soccer team because they the other guys were too uncomfortable with me in the locker room -_-; and i know some guys who are real jerks when it comes to gay guys, but still, girls need their own privacy i think. and i doubt lesbians would use the boys room >.>
2007-06-01 15:48:08 · answer #3 · answered by Jamesey 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
LOLS, that is wierd, and the lockerooms and bathrooms are only to be accessed by the gender acclaimed, with the exception of maintenance or if there is a problem, or an inspection w/e. Even if he is gay, it's not like those rooms are labeled "straight boys' lockeroom" or anything, it's labeled "boys' lockeroom". seriously, he needs to screw on his head straight, and why was he trying to put a tampon in unless if he has the tools of a female?
2007-06-01 15:39:03 · answer #4 · answered by hey h 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
If he was transgendered, and presenting as a girl, it would not be weird at all.
But if he's clearly a boy, even an extremely gay one, it's definitely odd. Assuming you're serious, my guess is that the school administration has the two things confused.
2007-06-01 17:40:29 · answer #5 · answered by angiekaos 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
WTF!? Why is that allowed? He's a guy still unless.. does he dress like a girl and teachers or whoever can tell he's a boy? Id scream at a girl to get out if there was a girl in the mens bathroom. Does the school know? That's insane.
2007-06-01 15:50:40 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hi, if this is true, and i doubt it, then the school is at fault here, a male should never be allowed in a girls bathroom or changing room
2007-06-01 15:50:18 · answer #7 · answered by pete m 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Why would he be using the girls' bathroom just because he's gay? Do you mean transgendered? Or just conning the world so that he can see ladies nekked?
2007-06-01 16:09:38 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
MAYBE HE IS AFRAID TO GO IN THE BOYS RESTROOM
YOU NEVER KNOW PEOPLE DO STUPID THING TO PEOPLE FOR NO REASON. MAYBE THAT IS WHY HE USES THE GIRLS RESTROOM IT NOT A PROBLEM TO ME CAUSE THE CLUB I GO TO WE ALL USE THE SAME RESTROOM AT THE SAME TIME
WELL GOOD LUCK
2007-06-02 10:03:34 · answer #9 · answered by kay b 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
that would be the same situation if my school allowed me in the boys locker room because im a lesbian...
2007-06-01 15:37:47 · answer #10 · answered by 6Rainbow9 1 · 1⤊ 2⤋