hi! i am 18 years old.i live in middle east.i am studying science at highschool.i have a normal life. i am muslim;but unfortunately i dont do all the rules in our religion;you know i thank god for everything;i want peace and happiness for everyone but i dont pray in the way our religion says;i dont wear scarf ; i really dont believe in wearing scarf ;anyway i wanna be a chemist;i really like chemistry and i wanna go to europe after university to get a job.every night i go to sleep i think about future;about my country;about so many things.i really like freedom and i see here is not enough freedom so i should try to be good at my studies to be able to go to the place i like to live.you know its really hard for a person at my age;i have to quit most of the funs ;i cant be relax ;i really need some advice;so could you please tell me how can i be more calm and how can i be better and reach my goals?i need advice.at the end let me say sorry for my bad english.have a great day !
2007-06-01 08:26:13 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Entertainment & Music ➔ Polls & Surveys
Well really i like your plan maybe since your freedom is limited where you live try going to a university/college in the states you sound very smart and intelligent you should stay focusing on school so you can achieve your goals. when you achieve your goals you'll have all the time in the world to have fun and having fun after goals means you'll be a successful look at the teenagers that messed up there chances at success and goals just to have fun they're either still living at home with there parents, living from paycheck to paycheck, some got children at a young age and i'm not just saying that if you have fun you'll mess your life up i'm just stating that you have a good head on your shoulders and yes you deserve to have fun once in a while but always have your priorities first they always come first. that's all i really have to stay good luck on having fun and extra good luck on becoming a chemist i'm gonna pray for you and you do the same!!
Also, just to let you know a little something about me i've had my own apartment since i turned 18 i'm about to be 20 and i never went to college or finished high school i have a ged and a trade in business just got a good job making 11.00 an hour full time hours that i can work with. So if you have a good head on your shoulders you'll absolutly do wonderful in this world peace out
2007-06-01 09:26:21 · answer #1 · answered by REPIN DA 804 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
What you have said here is looking like you know exactly what to do. The most important thing is to never have sex before you are married and / or living in Europe. Freedom is the best thing for everyone and the fact that you are working extra hard and are already pretty good at English shows you are on you way. Keep at it and believe in yourself and your dream. Stay strong and fight for what you want when necessary. To be calm just think about how good you will feel as a free woman and let that feeling relax you. Giving up fun is very hard at 18, but sometimes the goal is worth that. Best luck to you.
2007-06-01 08:39:23 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Stay in school, stay off drugs. Try and follow the right path. Don't be influenced by the negative forces around you. Follow your heart and do what's right.
It's ok to have fun and to party but know your priorities.
You seem like you've got your head on straight and you know what you want out of life so doing the right things to help you acheive your goals. Don't let anyone tell you that you can't do it. So called friends will tell you that you're a dork for wanting to have a great future but don't listen to them. They're just jealous and want to bring you down. Never let anyone do that to you.
2007-06-01 08:34:50 · answer #3 · answered by ஐƸ̵̡Ӝ̵̨̄Ʒஐ Vee ஐƸ̵̡Ӝ̵̨̄Ʒஐ 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I enjoy hearing the stories of women and girls in the Middle East. All the advice I can give you is to keep your hopes up and stay strong because one day, you will get to Europe. All you have to do is not give up on your dreams and you will achieve them. I don't know how your country works or anything, but maybe in the future you can get a visa and go work as a chemist in Europe.
2007-06-01 08:31:19 · answer #4 · answered by funnygrrl19 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It sounds like you are already taking positive steps toward your future, making decisions for yourself, and not getting caught up in religious extremism. If you keep doing those things, I'll bet you will have a good life. Best of luck.
2007-06-01 08:31:23 · answer #5 · answered by JeffyB 7 · 2⤊ 0⤋
**** what they think! I'm in a relationship with a older man I'm 18 he is over 30 also. We are getting married couldn't be happier :)
2016-04-01 09:52:22 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It sounds to me like you already have things figured out and a good plan for your life. Keep up the positive thinking!
2007-06-01 08:29:47 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
Go to a university in London and don't come back to your country. There is too much violence going on there now. My cousin left Iran for London and couldn't be happier.
2007-06-01 08:29:25 · answer #8 · answered by MaRk 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
You already have a great plan of action. Stay focused and don't get married.
You're doing just great, good for you! Good luck!
2007-06-01 08:37:56 · answer #9 · answered by Firespider 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I guess the only thing you can do is learn to appreciate the Earth and everything it has in it. When you can appreciate, the smallest thing becomes the biggest. So, appreciate your life and lifes of others.
2007-06-01 08:29:55 · answer #10 · answered by Godly_Expert 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋